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That's not what love bombing is

Actually yes it is

"Love bombing is a controlling and manipulative tactic most often used by narcissists and abusive people. They seek to quickly obtain affection and attention before tearing their victims down. They may appear charming and exciting in the beginning, but this usually fades away and is replaced with emotional abuse."

Don't take my word for it if you don't believe me. Look it up

┑(￣Д ￣)┍ You're an idiot who doesn't understand how what he's doing is manipulative and overwhelming for her, so looking it up wouldn't help me. She didn't need a white knight to save her and he KNOWS that. He has sex with her so that she didn't go to Blaine, and he is pushing marriage after some sex and trying to spoil her, saying he'll take care of everything even though he literally never even heard her full story of what happened and why she needed Carter out. It's not me who doesn't understand here. Good people can manipulate too. Idk if he even understands how weird what he's doing is. He doesn't know her or her story. She's just a poor girl to be "saved".

Replying to Sjm(sorry ik it's more annoying this way I'm not sure why mangago won't let me do it to you directly):

Was there really a need to insult me? Especially when you're the uneducated one here so sure of themselves they're not even willing to look stuff up.

He is clearly out of line here- I never said otherwise-
She has her own plans, and him playing(or trying to) knight in shining armor is annoying when she can care for herself. He's trying to reach his own goals(getting her), but that doesn't necessarily make him abusive, and DEFINITELY not love bombing.


I really don't understand how it's so hard for you to do some research before dieing on a hill you know nothing about.

I could copy paste a bunch of definitions and sources, but you still wouldn't take them for real because they come from someone you're hostile about.

For anyone else reading this: this would not account for as love bombing, because though his love seems to come out of nowhere for her, he is not actively looking for a way to get her affection only to tear it away just as abruptly, making her crave for more.

His actions are still a case of boundary issues, and I'm in no way shape or form saying what he's doing is the course to go.

All I mentioned(and corrected) was the use of one(1) word.

Ohhh wait I just looked it up and apparently you can block people on here?

So you were just going to call me an idiot and call it a day? Lmao ok

Aww butthurt I don't want to read your little simpering rant? Get bent, it's fictional stories and smutt.

There there ｡･ﾟ･(ﾉД`)ヽ(￣ω￣ )


Rough week?
My baby brother has these tantrums when he doesn't get his blinky too, we've all been there <3

I agree with you here… this is not love bombing. He has never been abusive - mentally or emotionally. Is he enthusiastic in pursuing a relationship with her? Yes. But if she says no then he will back off. I think he also knew in the past life how it all played out and wanted to save her the troubles of having to go through all that again, especially putting her life in danger for the sake of revenge. So I understand his mindset completely.
Also, I’ve seen my friends who are in abusive relationships getting love bombed, most commonly if the guy cheats on them then would love bomb when they get caught… this is not even close to what love bombing is

Omg thank you!
I was never trying to be rude(untill someone was rude to me first) but mainstream media adopting a word and watering it down till it loses all meaning irks me.

I'm so sorry to you and your friend. Hope they got out of that situation :(