"should we make it official?" then he said it's not like that....why bro??

literally.. his opportunity was right there

I think he thought he mentioned "friends with benefits" type of way so he said "no not like that"

I don't think he felt like he meant it and also he got shy, that's maybe why he didn't directly say yes or no but "not like that" meaning moving slower if there's a chance but *DASH* he's gone