beautifully said, seriously. his behavior is just unbelievably disgusting and I feel so incredibly bad for the mom.
None of that changes the fact that the mom is wrong too. Did you not see the constant trauma dumping on her son, not letting him have freedom? He has 70+ missed calls from her in a single day.
He had to go to a boarding school just to escape her.
gworl read the last three sentences of that paragraph
She is wrong, she should change but it shouldn't be enforced. So basically let her abuse her son however she wants.
enforce
/ɪnˈfɔːs,ɛnˈfɔːs/
verb
compel observance of or compliance with (a law, rule, or obligation).
not making someone have absolute compliance with something doesn’t mean ‘basically let her abuse her son however she wants’. it simply just means change shouldn’t be enforced… whats not there to understand?
you can disagree with someones actions berating or blaming them. Not once did I say that what she is doing is justified. I however made it clear that I do not agree with what she does but I also look at it from her pov. It’s called empathy.
without berating or blaming them*
Why is everyone in this comment section talking about how they feel so bad for the mom and sono but no one talking about what that man did?!?! like… did we just forget that this whole thing stemmed from the fact that disgusting gross man decided that he wanted to marry a woman, lead her on, have a child knowing that he’s attracted to men and not women and still go around sleeping with men?? Everything happened because this selfish man decided he didn’t want to take responsibility for his sexuality and js chose to sleep around instead while having a façade of a straight man. Stop blaming the mum for acting the way she does saying ‘ew shes projecting’, ‘just deal with it and move on’ or ‘she should go to therapy’!?!?! LIKE HELLO?? WHY ARE YOU TELLING THE WOMAN WHAT TO DO WHEN ITS HER HUSBAND COULDNT KEEP IT IN HIS FUCKING PANTS (OR HIS ARSE WHATEVER) AND HE CLEARLY SAW HIS SON SEE HIM SHAGGING BUT HE DECIDED THAT HIS MOMENTARY CUM CHANCE WAS MORE IMPORTANT TO HIM THAN HIS OWN OFFSPRING. Stop blaming things on women and overlooking the men. I have seen so many comments berating the mother but completely overlooking that vile creatures repugnant actions. I completely understand why she acts in the way she does, it may be wrong and she should change but it shouldn’t be enforced. If you were in her shoes and you found out your love was one-sided all these years and you wasted so much of your life, you wouldn’t be able to cope well either. Ik i wouldn’t.