yes thank you!! ive seen so many comments about how “unnecessary” and “gross” it is, like dude.. SA happens and its horrible. obviously its not a “fun” thing to read but its a very real thing that deserves attention. talking about SA and how it affects its victims is important
ohoho yes thank you very much for your much needed stern words to really wake some people up
People like SA until its portrayed as the violent humiliating crime it is, and then suddenly its "unnecessary" and "too dark". Its not that people dont like SA its that they dont like the right representation of male victims of assault, nobody wants to see the self-loathing, embarrassment, shame, depression and fear that comes along as a result. They like to live in the BL portrayal of assault where seuxal violence is minimised, dismissed, romanticised and or sexualised. The reality is that both us straight guys and the gay guys hate sexual violence and the way the media presents it is disturbing to say the least. Sexual assault is never okay. Its humiliating and degrading. Truly one of the worlds most vile crimes.
You took the words right off my mouth dude. You’re completely right. Such as , from what I heard, the popular yaoi (same author as bj Alex) the main character is of course similar stature as Yeonwoo and yet he got sexually assaulted by the ML and it’s SO easily overlooked and romanticized by the community when it comes to male victims. As long as it’s portrayed HOT, it’s all right(⊙…⊙ ) as long as the SA is portrayed hot when it comes to male victims (mostly yaoi) it’s all hand and dandy and sexy Σ( ￣□￣||)
Although it is heartbreaking to see Yeonwoo go through SA we shouldn’t demean that experience which happens. Once its portrayed realistically , it al log sudden a problem and people want to take it away and want him to stick to bullying like WAHT mind boggling
Some people even say it wasnt rape but seriously, if someone tells you to make a decision or else they'll beat the shit out of you after you just watched them beat up another man...wouldn't you feel pressured to say yes to intercourse?
I think we’ll get to find out what exactly gone down in the bathroom in Junhyuk’s POV arc during the whole events going down as we speak. In the fast pass chapters, we’re going to see his side of the story so we get to see how he came across hyeong jun and what lead to him fucking him up
There's literally bl and yaoi with bullies to lovers. It's not fun anymore because it's a realistic victim. It's so crazy how people were upset at 1st when jinx came out but then they got over it because he's just too attractive
OHH I WAS REFERRING TO JINX (mingwas work) BUT ALRIGHT
It really all took a feminine male character being SAd for y'all to open your big mouths. If anything this is raising awareness not only about SA in Korea but also male victims and you guys complain about how "unnecessary" this is and how the author should've sticked to the bullying. So raising awareness about bullying is nice but if it's about SA it isn't? If it's a triggering topic, just drop it. That's usually what the warnings at the beginning of the chapters are about. You'll live.