Fr like it’s not only jawyoujgs fault. Sangwoo literally started the argument and he can’t even see where he’s wrong
You lot are forgetting what Sangwoo was like in the beginning, how he has everything planned, how he hates change in his life. Are you forgetting that JAEYOUNG was the one who told him that the relationship was just friends with benefits so that’s what sangwoo believed it was. Now he can’t imagine a life without Jaeyoung. He’s trying to find ppl to replace him because that what a logical person like sangwoo does (he’s finding that there’s no one who can replace him ) and then to be ghosted for 3 days so his reaction and attitude makes a lot of sense.
This, exactly
Honestly, I’m not convinced trying to find someone else to replace someone after not talking for a few days does make sense, but okay
Nope, it doesn't makes sense at all.
Now, to start a relationship (whether it's for benefit, partnership or whatev) both parties has to aggree.
Is it only jaeyoung's fault that the relationship had developed to something more? No.
They both felt the same way for each other.
Meaning that they both started to get more accostumed to be in a more proper relationship rather than just a bysiness type.
I get what you're saying, that b4 Jaeyoung, Sangwoo's world was automatic-monotone-rational.
But making Jaeyoung the root of all evil in Sangwoo's life is so not fair?
Like imagine if you were Jaeyoung in that moment in the car.
You just confessed your love and prolly the most deep thoughts abt the other person.
Then the other person says "oh but you know, when you run out of food, you just go buy more groceries".
As Sangwoo were intending that when Jaeyoung will consume his little time with him, he'll still have more time later with someone else.
Do you really think Sangwoo's paranoid and silly jealousy was not a starting factor here?
Jaeyoung was clearly hurt, MORE than Sangwoo could ever feel after a ghosting.
And yeah at least blame it on the fact that Sangwoo doesn't have experience in relationship/love. I would’ve at least aggreed on that
Nah cause i still don't see where Jaeyoung was at fault. Was he wrong for getting mad at Sangwoo, who said the most negative shit about their relationship, that there's no future, that's gonna end anyway, that Jaeyoung will find someone else? Like... gurl.
There's a little narrative where Sangwoo feels like he's right for thinking that the relationship doesn't have a future just bcz Jaeyoung will leave the country. But He's the one that can't keep his shit together i'm sorry.
Jaeyoung hasn't done ANYTHING that could potentially ruin the relationship. He was the one trying to fix it, maybe not in the most efficient way BUT AT LEAST HE WAS TRYING AND HE ABSOLUTELY CARED ABOUT THE RELATIONSHIP