The only one coping here is Taekyung fym? Legit Heeseo is the most devious guy ever, Taekyung rlly got sa'd and raped and now bro is just under the suspension bridge effect. Heeseo the menace is legit the definition of what the cycle of abuse is
YEAHAHA TELL EM dude idk why tf everyone is romanticizing this when it’s completely unhealthy and just morally wrong?? taekyung only has feelings for heeseo out of pity, heeseos fucking pathetic and his manipulation shit is insane
Uhhh the op isnt romanticising anything lol i get what you mean but that part could be taken wrong im just clearly the air
i haven't, in any way, romanticize them. both of them are fucked up and have traumas. the other uses abuse as a "coping mechanism", and the other one just let the other guy abuse him (just so the other guy don't get hurt).... that's why i said "lol truama bonding" coz they're doing this shit as a "way" to not hurt anymore. but the truth is they're just hurting each other more, they're just unaware, due to the emotions and traumas they have.
if i romanticized this shit i would've said "wow, what a great form of love" ☠ i mean who in their right mind would even romanticize this shit???
it's kinda sad that in this society now, a simple sentence like what i commented, can get misunderstood??? reading comprehension where
but i'll admit it's kinda my bad coz i used the term "coping mechanism", when i should've used "defense mechanism". maybe you'd understood my comment, and not took it in a wrong way☠ (in case you don't know what i mean, there are different ways of defense mechanism in psychology when it comes to trauma!)
but it's still funny how you misunderstood that simple comment lmao i mean i read it again and again, and if other people commented that, i would not have assumed they're romanticizing the story ☠ or maybe it's because i have high reading comprehension and understanding
Yeah i think they got confused
genuinely never said you romanticized them sry if it came off like that saw other ppl in the comments using shared trauma as an excuse or just flat out romanticizing their relationship and the abuse in it,, was just agreeing with the other persons comment on general! not anything directed towards you or your comment
didn’t say op was!! my bad if they assumed that i was just referring how in the comments ppl were genuinely either completely ignoring the abuse in their relationship or taking it very lightly and just being fucking weird ab it,, didn’t mean to cause problems
both of them have so much trauma, this became their coping mechanism lmao