Yamadera pisses me off

I love haeseo ≧∇≦ probably why I like this series love their dynamic hahah

i don't think u get what 'trauma doesn't excuse awful behviour' really means. yes, u can't get off scot-free because u were traumatised, but it does explain the behaviour and thought process of the individual. it looks severe from what we've seen of his childhood,,, we can see why he shows a constant need for power over others. unfortunately, victims often become the aggressors, because they weren't given the help they need to recover.

my point is that while he needs a shit ton of therapy, he def isn't irredeemable. hopefully over the course of the story and their relationship he realises he needs to change. for his own sake and sayo's.