What's with the cringey heterosexual dialogues

I was not even going to comment on this but you said what I was thinking
I am a female who also engages in het sex and smut but it still turns me off so much sometimes, like I understand when it comes from a "play" but in this story it was totally uncalled for, but I guess it is just a common "curse word in bed" for English speaking countries ??? (I read in other 3 languages and this just happens in English) Sinse it mainly comes from male creators and even in some real porn (what I don't really consume much so it must be THAT common for me to have heard it)