
Well, first husband was kind to her but never loved her - never truly treated her like a wife - the only difference between the two was that third husband was more awkward :/ and even then, as everyone was saying, she should have (as an abused child) recognized at least a sign of another’s abuse (she knew he was a bastard prince too)

You’ve got your characters mixed up hun. In chapter 15 she said “he was like and older brother to me” talking about her first husband. She fell in love with her third husband at first sight, says so in chapter 18. However, her and her first husband actually had a decent relationship, even if it wasn’t a romantic one, he also gave up a lot in order to get her out of prison. Her third husband however, couldn’t even initiate a conversation with her, and she likely believed what her sister said before she died, meaning she also thinks that he betrayed her and her child to be with her sister. So no, she is completely justified in her dislike of him and her trauma, though I suspect that will change after she learns the truth about him.

AH that’s true - I was thinking of FL and 3rd husband, not FL and 1st! But still, I don’t think there’s anything anyone will say to convince me she’s wrong for hating on that child unjustifyingly (=゚ω゚)ノ specially if it’s because she’s believes more the sister that hates her ^^’ let’s agree to disagree and she’s where this goes ( *`ω´)

What? Where is she mean to him? She just avoids him. Sorry she isn’t just forgetting 30 years of trauma because he’s a kid. Also, she doesn’t hate the 1st one because he was nice and literally died a year later. Her 3rd husband only fucked her silently till she was pregnant then left her in a prison cell where she was nearly killed.
Listen, I am entertained. But this whole "third husband resentment" is such a poorly played device to add more drama and have a longer story :/ that's just poor writing
If we followed that logic, she should hate her first husband too, no?