In a way the uke was not at fault but in an another he was. He didn't WANT to sleep with someone else, he didn't invite them at that time. But I really believe that the blindfold is very symbolic. He would wear it when he had sex with strangers so he could disassociate and distance himself from them. Developing feelings for the seme scared him, and he reverted back to wearing the blind fold, which was his way of trying to deny his feelings. If he had not been wearing the blindfold, the situation wouldn't have occurred. But I think the seme is mature and wise enough to realize that the uke has gone through very drastic changes and that he is struggling. Plus he is smart and opportunistic enough to realize that this incident has forced the uke to finally accept his own feelings. Would I be able to get past it myself? My insecurities say no, sadly.
In a way the uke was not at fault but in an another he was. He didn't WANT to sleep with someone else, he didn't invite them at that time. But I really believe that the blindfold is very symbolic. He would wear it when he had sex with strangers so he could disassociate and distance himself from them. Developing feelings for the seme scared him, and he reverted back to wearing the blind fold, which was his way of trying to deny his feelings. If he had not been wearing the blindfold, the situation wouldn't have occurred. But I think the seme is mature and wise enough to realize that the uke has gone through very drastic changes and that he is struggling. Plus he is smart and opportunistic enough to realize that this incident has forced the uke to finally accept his own feelings. Would I be able to get past it myself? My insecurities say no, sadly.