But why Seo-an keeps acting bossy towards Woowon? Is he older than him? I thought they hav...

Deedee October 8, 2023 10:43 am

But why Seo-an keeps acting bossy towards Woowon? Is he older than him? I thought they have pretty much the same age. Or maybe he acts that way cause he thinks he has way more experience than Woowon? Idk it kinda gets on my nerves how bossy and arrogant he is

Responses
    junghoseokie October 8, 2023 10:50 am

    I noticed acts like that towards everyone..rich people things I guess

    sharkmimi October 8, 2023 11:41 am

    maybe he just likes being a bit more dominat, i personally don’t think it’s a problem tbh. it’s not like he’s forcing him

    toilet terrorist October 8, 2023 11:49 am

    hes just dominant

    Deedee October 8, 2023 1:34 pm
    I noticed acts like that towards everyone..rich people things I guess junghoseokie

    It must be yes. He acts like he's so full of himself but in S1 it was way more tolerable. It really started to be noticeable once he and Woowon started their relationship. It's a bit weird. But yeah I am guessing he's naturally dominant when in a relationship and he maybe cannot stand being a bottom so he expresses his domination verbally and through action

    Rishi October 8, 2023 4:03 pm

    I think he’s just dominant. The author also mentioned that seoan doesn’t like being controlled or overpowered due to self esteem issues. He needs to feel like he has some sense of power over the situation (might be because he literally doesn’t under his family)

    Deedee October 8, 2023 6:45 pm
    I think he’s just dominant. The author also mentioned that seoan doesn’t like being controlled or overpowered due to self esteem issues. He needs to feel like he has some sense of power over the situation ... Rishi

    Makes a lot of sense. Thanks for clarifying

    MuranZaly October 8, 2023 6:50 pm

    1. He's just dominant
    2. He is rich (not an excuse)
    3. He has self-esteem issues
    4. He bottoms for ONLY Woowon even though he has always been a top. He've already given away to Woowon in position so he decided to dominate him in other ways?
    I kinda like this side of Seo Ah cause it is so rare to see a super dominant uke like him. Everyone likes the top being possessive, clingy, simp, controlling, dominant,...
    but when the uke has those people find it weird. ( ̄へ ̄)

    Deedee October 8, 2023 9:04 pm
    1. He's just dominant2. He is rich (not an excuse)3. He has self-esteem issues4. He bottoms for ONLY Woowon even though he has always been a top. He've already given away to Woowon in position so he decided to ... MuranZaly

    It's not really the dominant part that annoys me but rather the arrogant one. He acts and talks with Woowon as if he was his hyung. As if he's smarter than him. I get that Woowon is very innocent and has little to no experience in dating but he's not dumb. Seaon acts surprised when Woowon shows initiative. Just let him be and stop commenting on every Woowon's move. I find Seoan a bit judgmental and intimidating with him. Just chill man, we know you're the experienced one and used to be a top. You don't need to make it obvious every single time

    wngkyu October 9, 2023 4:03 am
    It's not really the dominant part that annoys me but rather the arrogant one. He acts and talks with Woowon as if he was his hyung. As if he's smarter than him. I get that Woowon is very innocent and has little... Deedee

    sorry to interrupts you but i suggests you to either drop or put on hold this manhwa because the next 2 chapters seo-an gonna piss you off even more with his grumpy attidude or maybe reread this story and try to understand why he act grumpy to everyone ig ? cause in my opinion he's just like being superior to woowon when in bed and outside bed he's a good bf like hes literally encouraging woowon to go out his comfort zone, boost his self-confidence etc... and woowon is straight ( now bi ig ) obv seoan gonna surprised like where tf this guy learn gay sex (excuse my grammatical errors)

    Nina00 October 9, 2023 6:14 am
    It's not really the dominant part that annoys me but rather the arrogant one. He acts and talks with Woowon as if he was his hyung. As if he's smarter than him. I get that Woowon is very innocent and has little... Deedee

    Some people are just more dominant in their nature and that’s how seoan is, him even being bottom for woowon goes against his natural instinct so it’s weird to fault him for being a little arrogant. I mean woowon doesn’t have an issue with it so what is there to even discuss.

    Also coming chapters is gonna be more of a headache for you then, we will learn that seoan has a great sense of pride which probably stems from his self-esteem issues which is definitely gonna show during the sex. Other than that he is extremely loving and kind, all the he wants is woowons best and he does nothing but encourage him and care for him soo

    Deedee October 9, 2023 10:45 am
    Some people are just more dominant in their nature and that’s how seoan is, him even being bottom for woowon goes against his natural instinct so it’s weird to fault him for being a little arrogant. I mean ... Nina00

    I won't drop it. This is one of my favorite BL. I love both Woowon and Seoan but I can't help being annoyed by Seoan's recent attitude. Now that you guys shared your opinion on this topic and gave pretty convincing arguments, I am gonna try to have a different reading of Seoan behavior. His character will be even more intriguing since he's acting that way because of his self-esteem and past family trauma

    Seo An’s side-eye October 9, 2023 7:11 pm

    I think part of why he might come off as bossy or arrogant is because we’ve mostly gotten Seo An’s interior thoughts when they’re having sex/getting intimate. It’s just his internal monologue… so when he’s thinking “we’ve got a long way to go” or whatever I actually find it funny and cute because he’s kinda teasing woo won even in his thoughts. It’s not malicious. Woo won genuinely does have a lot of catching up to do (he’s literally learning how to be gay as an adult) but Seo an being sexually assertive doesn’t mean he thinks less of woo won. They’re on this road together and he wants woo won to learn to let go and more freely experience desire. That’s my two cents!

    Seo An’s side-eye October 9, 2023 7:14 pm

    I think part of why he might come off as bossy or arrogant is because we’ve mostly gotten Seo An’s interior thoughts when they’re having sex/getting intimate. It’s just his internal monologue… so when he’s thinking “we’ve got a long way to go” or whatever I actually find it funny and cute because he’s kinda teasing woo won even in his thoughts. It’s not malicious. Woo won genuinely does have a lot of catching up to do (he’s literally learning how to be gay as an adult) but Seo an being sexually assertive doesn’t mean he thinks less of woo won. They’re on this road together and he wants woo won to learn to let go and more freely experience desire. That’s my two cents! (●'◡'●)ノ

    Deedee October 10, 2023 12:24 am
    I think part of why he might come off as bossy or arrogant is because we’ve mostly gotten Seo An’s interior thoughts when they’re having sex/getting intimate. It’s just his internal monologue… so when... Seo An’s side-eye

    Thanks for sharing your opinion. I haven't noticed those sentences were mostly his thoughts and not an actual dialogue with Woowon. That puts things in a different perspective for sure. I will read again all S2 chapters to better appreciate his character's attitude. Gonna be fun

    Seo An’s side-eye October 11, 2023 3:30 am
    Thanks for sharing your opinion. I haven't noticed those sentences were mostly his thoughts and not an actual dialogue with Woowon. That puts things in a different perspective for sure. I will read again all S2... Deedee

    I love this comic so much!! I wanna reread it sometime too!

    Idontthinkthisisthelifeiwant October 11, 2023 9:55 pm

    Its called personality