im sticking around for the plot, but it feels really gross reading r*pe that is meant to b...

Kittykat October 12, 2023 5:26 am

im sticking around for the plot, but it feels really gross reading r*pe that is meant to be smut. its framed in a way that is supposed to be enjoyable to the reader but its really just brutal r*pe. i dont understand how BL authors can keep making this stuff, like do they not feel disgusted? cuz all i feel in those smut scenes is now awful and traumatized that poor guy must be, being assaulted by four men. could have easily writted a character who liked sex, or left out the graphic depictions of r*pe.

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    pennyinheaven October 19, 2023 1:08 am
    no it shouldnt be so graphic. studies have shown graphic portrayal makes us numb and less empathetic to actual victims Kittykat

    So the author also failed to portray the guide looking devastated after the guiding sessions. Got it.

    Sazz October 19, 2023 2:24 am
    So the author also failed to portray the guide looking devastated after the guiding sessions. Got it. pennyinheaven

    There is no need to make rape "graphic". Graphic sexual scenes, to the point they show extremely close details, are made for the sake of porn not for the sake of just showing a scene to move on the plot. Presenting rape as porn is highly problematic. It doesn't make it okay nor does the fact that the ml looks miserable after it change its cause, which is once again porn. Even ml's devastation is used as part of it, for people that get off rape as presented in porn. The fact that the character even ends up with his assaulters further proves my point. Yeah, this is meant to be a fucked up story sure, but let's not lie to ourselves and act as if the porn scenes weren't made for the sake of the sexual enjoyment of the readers. There's a difference between plain graphic sexual scenes and graphic porn scenes. This is graphic porn and porn only has one use. It's true that people who enjoy this type of content are not evil or immoral (that would be too far fetched) but it's also true that consuming this type of content in daily basis can desensitize you over this specific matter. I'm not saying that it'll make think rape is okay, but it will make you less emotionally understanding of people that become victims of this sexual crime. The human brain is "connecting the pieces" depending on the information it receives daily, and this happens without you even realizing.

    Kittykat October 19, 2023 6:05 am
    There is no need to make rape "graphic". Graphic sexual scenes, to the point they show extremely close details, are made for the sake of porn not for the sake of just showing a scene to move on the plot. Presen... Sazz

    YES!!!! THANK U! This is exactly what i meant

    Kittykat October 19, 2023 6:06 am
    There is no need to make rape "graphic". Graphic sexual scenes, to the point they show extremely close details, are made for the sake of porn not for the sake of just showing a scene to move on the plot. Presen... Sazz

    this is genuinely so well written and intellectual and hits on every point. this is meant to be r*pe porn and the author sees no issue with it, as do many BL authors. more people need to speak out like this.

    Sazz October 19, 2023 10:58 am
    this is genuinely so well written and intellectual and hits on every point. this is meant to be r*pe porn and the author sees no issue with it, as do many BL authors. more people need to speak out like this. Kittykat

    Thank you

    Aastik October 20, 2023 12:16 pm
    Thank you Sazz

    This is so true, beautifully written, & yes this normalisation of rape & victim ending up with the rapist have been going on for soo long, that it has become deep rooted, & the fact that there's hardly any yaoi in which the top serves the jail time for abusing victim, & they don't even get to face the consequences, all they do is get lovey dovey in the end as if rape never really happened

    Aastik October 20, 2023 12:17 pm
    im allowed to criticize. there are serious problems in the BL community that need to be talked about Kittykat

    Exactly normalisation of rape & victim ending up with the rapist have been going on for soo long, that it has become deep rooted, & the fact that there's hardly any yaoi in which the top serves the jail time for abusing victim, & they don't even get to face the consequences, all they do is get lovey dovey in the end as if rape never really happened

    Kittykat October 21, 2023 2:19 am
    This is so true, beautifully written, & yes this normalisation of rape & victim ending up with the rapist have been going on for soo long, that it has become deep rooted, & the fact that there's har... Aastik

    YUPPP!!!

    12Wolves94 October 21, 2023 5:17 am

    From what I’ve read so far, this webtoon actually did it better than many titles to show the main character not enjoying his treatment. Especially after the harsh situation where he has to service the 4 espers. It is still still tagged as smut, yes, but it is not the more enjoyable kind. It is not as black and white as many others where the MC just accepts he was raped and loving it not long after. Yugeon also doesn’t forget his objective of why he’s doing this in the 1st place; for his brother.

    I’ve seen many MCs forgetting why they were raped in the 1st place, and just accepting their situation. That’s where the normalization in rape happens. This title walk that balance between ‘bl smut’ and ‘sexual assault’. BL does have a problem with the normalization of rape, indeed, I hope in the future BL authors do show more that rape is a serious problem. So in a way, this webtoon is trying to be more nuanced in that department; more that I’ve could say for many titles.

    I don’t enjoy what happened to Yugeon, and I don’t see this as enjoyable ‘smut’ as well. Realistically, Yugeon won’t end up with any of the 4 espers, unless the tone of the BL changes slowly. I see Shinje starting to care about Yugeon, so it is interesting to see how the dynamic and power play will play out. Rape victims usually is not in any position of power to deny any advances, and in BL, it is apparent as well. Though, I see Yugeon will be able to stand above this, and he is no softie as well, unlike many MCs in ‘romantic sexual assault’ BLs. I also stick around mostly for the plot as well, since the plot is what interest me the most. The art do helps in that sense, albeit kinda rough around the edges. Hope you will continue sticking around as well since this seems to have potential. Let’s see if the situation will get better for our MC. (๑•ㅂ•)و✧

    Kittykat October 22, 2023 7:14 pm
    From what I’ve read so far, this webtoon actually did it better than many titles to show the main character not enjoying his treatment. Especially after the harsh situation where he has to service the 4 esper... 12Wolves94

    hes going to end up with the ML. duh. and thats part of the issue. also the smut was def made to be enjoyable for some people.

    12Wolves94 October 22, 2023 8:01 pm
    hes going to end up with the ML. duh. and thats part of the issue. also the smut was def made to be enjoyable for some people. Kittykat

    Yeah, it is still made enjoyable for some, but not straight up enjoyable. It has that very much dubious consent vibe, and it makes many people not enjoying it. Well, the thing is is, this kind of BL, the MC is always going to end up with the ML. At least, it’s not straight up immediately together. That’s why I’m saying it’s as least not as bad as the others. Still problematic, but not the worst.

    Sazz October 22, 2023 11:05 pm
    Yeah, it is still made enjoyable for some, but not straight up enjoyable. It has that very much dubious consent vibe, and it makes many people not enjoying it. Well, the thing is is, this kind of BL, the MC is ... 12Wolves94

    The consent is not "dubious". It's clearly non consensual.

    12Wolves94 October 22, 2023 11:31 pm

    I said the very dubious consent vibe; the vibe itself. Of course, the main character, Yugeon, never agrees to this in the first place. But, for his job, he has to, reluctantly. Well, it is problematic cause in the end it’s still not consensual.

    Sazz October 23, 2023 11:13 am
    I said the very dubious consent vibe; the vibe itself. Of course, the main character, Yugeon, never agrees to this in the first place. But, for his job, he has to, reluctantly. Well, it is problematic cause in ... 12Wolves94

    I see what you mean, but yeah, even the vibe is NOT dubious because it was coercion, blackmail. He didn't really "agree", he was coerced/blackmailed to. So i stick to my words, nothing about it is dubious, be it the vibes or the actions themselves.

    Sazz October 23, 2023 11:16 am
    I see what you mean, but yeah, even the vibe is NOT dubious because it was coercion, blackmail. He didn't really "agree", he was coerced/blackmailed to. So i stick to my words, nothing about it is dubious, be i... Sazz

    Unless of course in fiction the word dubious is also used in coercion? Not sure. I think the blackmail makes it pass the line of "dubious".

    12Wolves94 October 23, 2023 11:27 am
    I see what you mean, but yeah, even the vibe is NOT dubious because it was coercion, blackmail. He didn't really "agree", he was coerced/blackmailed to. So i stick to my words, nothing about it is dubious, be i... Sazz

    I’m saying very dubious consent vibe, cause a few times, I feel like it was portrayed that way in the webtoon, but I know its not. It’s just the art deceiving me. OTL
    Yeah, art excuse aside, it’s not and has never been consensual, I agree. I always see Yugeon being exhausted and it’s depressing.

    12Wolves94 October 23, 2023 11:30 am
    Unless of course in fiction the word dubious is also used in coercion? Not sure. I think the blackmail makes it pass the line of "dubious". Sazz

    Haha, sometimes I think the authors in BL do try to make the coercion, ‘dubious’, in a sense. But the more aware readers will notice anyway. Profundis never hide the ugliness at least.

    Sazz October 23, 2023 12:02 pm
    Haha, sometimes I think the authors in BL do try to make the coercion, ‘dubious’, in a sense. But the more aware readers will notice anyway. Profundis never hide the ugliness at least. 12Wolves94

    I see

    Kittykat October 24, 2023 1:24 am
    Unless of course in fiction the word dubious is also used in coercion? Not sure. I think the blackmail makes it pass the line of "dubious". Sazz

    dubious consent is often a phrased used to avoid the word rape so people dont feel bad enjoying it which is gross.

    Sazz October 24, 2023 1:36 am
    dubious consent is often a phrased used to avoid the word rape so people dont feel bad enjoying it which is gross. Kittykat

    I mean, that makes sense, you either give consent or you don't. And if you just accept a situation through coercion, that's technically not real consent either. I guess the term "coercive rape" exists for a reason.