
Would ines even do the things shes done of she hasnt lived through her past? She does not have a reason to do that if the tormenting of men and her family stopped. She even stopped being that bubbly socialite just to not have any attention to would make her desirable. She did what she did so she could live as freely as she could. And my main problem was op said "women only bring problems sigh" as if the men in this webtoon are saints.

Her past doesn't excuse her actions. Likewise for any asshole MLs who had a sad backstory and treated their female leads shit because of it. The least she could do is to stop pushing Carcel to cheating on her. She wants a reason to dispose him and she kept disregarding his feelings. It's annoying tbh. I don't care if shes a woman. She's in the wrong for it.
And as for the op saying women only bring problems, you think your mother gave birth to you so you can cause problems? Stop generalizing and involving women. We are only talking about fictional here.

You know she always the person behind everything from 6 years old. In the beginning when she showed up to catch him cheating, that was part of her plan to guilt trip him to stop delaying the marriage and marry her. The novel just explain it better.
She had been preparing for this moment for a very long time. In her third life the reason she persisted on an antisocial life was largely due to the irritation with her previous social life, but everything else was the result of thorough calculation and meticulous preparation.
https://www.novelupdatesforum.com/posts/7038672/
For example, that was why she had been stubbornly wearing only black and dark outfits, that no women wore ‘unless someone was dead, enters the monastery, or became mentally deranged’, for 17 years.
At a time when he was frightened of her for a long time, Inés had spent a few years sending extreme love letters and gifts to the point where he was terrified. She made him overwhelmed by the pressure so he would run away and spread their distance on his own. (She lovebombed him.)
In those days, Cárcel did not run away as easily as she thought, but it was clear that there had been some progress. Eventually later on, she was afraid of getting married, and she made him go circles when he was in the military academy and the navy. (He did tried to get close to her and she made him run in circles.)
Nevertheless, the more inevitable time had arrived, and his fiancée, whom Cárcel Escalante was said to be ‘negligent’ with would finally enter the Escalante household. It couldn’t help but be fearful for him.
Nevertheless, at the beginning, she would hardly be able to do anything else. So she was willing to release the reins in advance. She intended to make him feel guilty as much as possible. Because they had to get married, and he had to have an affair. (She was purposely there in Prologue to make him feel guilty to rush the marriage.)

Novel updates got a whole section in the toc on the Brainwashing & Manipulation
https://www.novelupdatesforum.com/posts/6382222/

If its about ines why are you generalizing the entirety of women? Cant have opinions without bringing them down? Try and justify your misogynist behaviour and you might find some incels that will defend you.
Its not about your "reaction," its about how you see ONE WOMAN and suddenly all women bring the problem, as if their whole society dont romanticize infidelity. If you didnt read this story with a narrow mind you would understand.
Magreact ka lang kung gusto mo, but expect people to react to tyou when you say stupid shit. Dont get mad when people think your stupid kasi makitid utak mo.

Regarding the content of the novel updates link, i agree they shouldve put in the parts where ines was acting like a real person and also how she planned everything. But i guess their plan was to make carcel out to be the bad guy(and it worked) and do a big reveal later on that ines was a "cunning, smart" male manipulator.
Anyway, do you have a source for the en translations of the novel, aside from novel updates spoilers?

I don't think they'll do any reveal on her manipulating Carcel bc the artist loves Ines so they just want her to be liked. They made the Carcel appear as the bad guy for Ines to appear better. The cheating not even important to the story so they probably don't care but it's only the readers who care bc even Ines don't care. In the novel every time he apologize, she tells him to stop apologizing when he didn't do any wrong bc the cheating isn't important. It was just set up by the author for Ines to choose him again bc Ines wanted a cheater and if he wasn't a cheater, she would've chose another man instead who isn't meant to be with her.

Saan sa comment ko na sinabi ko na “provlema lang dala lahat ng babae”? Saan po? Nagbabasa ka ba? At kung makapag react ka akala mo naman dinefeng ko na ng todo yung lalaki pati yung mga pinaggagawa niya pang babaero eh? Alam mo yon? Atsaka hindi ba fact yon? Na dala nung babae ngayon problema? What the fuck? Sa mga sinabi ko triggered ka? Sa konting sinabi ko? Triggered ka? Ikaw nga ‘tong unang nagtrtrash talk kasi sa pagiging feminism mo, akala mo naman kinabait mo? Kung makapag lait ka dahil lang sa comment ng ginawa ko? Eh edi ako na yung bobo? Thank you.

You think just because im a feminist mabait na ako? No im fighting for women's rights to not be abused by people with power over them. I dont tolerate people putting women down for the mistake of one. Dont think na lahat ng feminist anghel, im certainly not one because lalaitin ko mga katulad mo kung gusto ko. And dont get me started with "hindi ko naman nilahat". You dont know the damage you can do by mere words. And you think dahil "konti lang" sinabi mo hindi na hurtful? Ako pa hindi nagiisip. Be a critic to yourself. Matuto ka magisip bago ka magsalita. And youre welcome, at least I can help you realize your inner mysoginistic mindset, that your past generation have instilled in you that you tolerate ignorantly.
Naaawa na ako sayo eh. Problema lang dala ng babae. Hayks