
this! i see this shit a lot in danmei unfortunately. for example, the MDZS fandom is SO obsessed with wei wuxian (the smaller one) being the bottom all the time, to the point if you see any story/fanart with lan zhan as the bottom, there will always be hordes of people laughing at it or even getting *angry* (usually mostly on twt). how dare you make them see btm lan zhan? don't you know men lose their masculinity when they bottom?! /s
why would you be angry at someone switching? the only people who get angry at gay couples switching are i) fetishists ii) kids iii) both. i'm really, really over children making dumb comments on shit they have no idea abt.

I personally like when characters are as the author intend them to be (so I don't care about fanfics much) but if people make it any other way there's nothing to be mad about. Idk why some people do
Also my comment was more directed at people who ONLY want switch when it's a masculine couple or a pretty top, but not having the same energy when it's a masculine bottom x pretty/small bottom couple. These exact people want switch, but not when it's a small or pretty bottom. That's a problem also.

I don’t care for switching when it isn’t implied they are into that. That is really the bottom line to me I like femme tops and masculine tops so them switching would turn me off slightly. And on a last note I don’t think it’s that deep for a lot of folks we come to read for our enjoyment. I guess because the comment feature is back on people just comment what they will for the likes.

do i look like i give a shit what you like? just because i'm not nasty ass fetishist like you doesn't mean i comment shit for the likes. what the fuck am i gonna do with likes on MANGAGO, of all the godforsaken websites on the internet? am i gonna be famous? just because YOU are obsessed with likes doesn't mean everyone else is a braindead attention whore zombie who only posts basic ass comments that get positive attention.
if you're not gonna contribute anything useful to the convo, i don't need your dumbass input. fuck outta here, creepy ass. fetishists stay mad.

lol idk how you can interpret this any other way, but i am for them switching. i don't mind if they don't switch (i am used to not-switching couples in yaoi), but i would have been happy if they had. that's not really what my point was about though.
i'm talking about people who are saying how they *hate* switching, how they're not gonna read this story anymore if the couple switches etc bc that's just so incredibly childish and fetishizing. making such a fuss abt a couple switching ONCE (1) is what i was talking about.
people reading YAOI, where two men fuck, are screaming crying throwing up at the thought of them switching.
i hate to bring up the word "fetishization", but in this case it applies. you lot are definitely fetishists.
a lot of men who like to get fucked also like to fuck sometimes. do you think gay men who bottom once give up the nerves in their cock permanently? that they feel nothing from penile stimulation?
go back to reading your children's story books if you're gonna act like a dumbass child. i miss when mgg wasn't full of annoying ass children.