Trauma isn't an excuse for cheating, lying, not dealing with jealousy in a healthy way, an...

Trauma isn't an excuse for cheating, lying, not dealing with jealousy in a healthy way, and not communicating. I realize the uke here needs therapy badly but once again, it's not an excuse to go around spreading your trauma to those who unfortunately try and help you. I'm afraid I may end up actually dropping this when the cheating happens. I can't feel any sympathy for the uke even knowing his past, I when he makes that choice to cheat because of jealous FEELINGS.