A GENTLE REMINDER❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ A gentle reminder to my fellow re...

That Fujoshi November 7, 2023 6:16 am

A GENTLE REMINDER
A gentle reminder to my fellow readers that romanticising abusive relationships is only gonna come back to bite your ass later in life so reading such type of stuff is okay as long as you understand that romanticising abusive relationships is NOT healthy.

Responses
    Justme November 8, 2023 3:53 pm

    I dont think a single soul thinks this is romantic….Cause this is messed up and mature,you should remind people to not read this if they are underage or if they are impressionable.Anyways i wouldnt blame bl if they think this is healthy,real relationships have people to blame.
    Anyways please dont read this if you dont have stable ideas for healthy relationships or if you have a weak heart.

    kko November 10, 2023 3:30 am
    I dont think a single soul thinks this is romantic….Cause this is messed up and mature,you should remind people to not read this if they are underage or if they are impressionable.Anyways i wouldnt blame bl i... Justme

    they didn't say it's romantic they said to not romanticise the abuse. it means not to make the rape in this more appealing than it actually is

    That Fujoshi November 10, 2023 11:22 am
    I dont think a single soul thinks this is romantic….Cause this is messed up and mature,you should remind people to not read this if they are underage or if they are impressionable.Anyways i wouldnt blame bl i... Justme

    Actually I've seen comments which were actually normalising this type of relationships, which is why I decided to post this comment because calling those out and fighting with them is not really my thing. Also a lot of underage people come to this site (speaking from experience ) so I don't think a warning/disclaimer is gonna stop underage people from reading this because underage people do exactly the stuff they've been denied to do/ warned not to do (again, speaking from experience )

    That Fujoshi November 10, 2023 11:22 am
    they didn't say it's romantic they said to not romanticise the abuse. it means not to make the rape in this more appealing than it actually is kko

    Thank you for explaining :)

    kko November 10, 2023 3:18 pm
    Thank you for explaining :) That Fujoshi

    kko November 10, 2023 3:19 pm
    Thank you for explaining :) That Fujoshi

    no prob

    That Fujoshi November 10, 2023 3:20 pm
    no prob kko

    :)

    Sapiosexual November 11, 2023 1:37 am
    Actually I've seen comments which were actually normalising this type of relationships, which is why I decided to post this comment because calling those out and fighting with them is not really my thing. Also ... That Fujoshi

    I don't think underage people should read Yaoi from beginning (full of porn and red flag characters), not only this manhwa because it contains violence or abuse. So you should give warning to every manhwa or manga in this site.

    Sapiosexual November 11, 2023 2:29 am
    I don't think underage people should read Yaoi from beginning (full of porn and red flag characters), not only this manhwa because it contains violence or abuse. So you should give warning to every manhwa or ma... Sapiosexual

    Many people are romanticising relationship with red flag characters (most ML in Yaoi are red flags with obsession). In real life, red flags character usually can turn to abusive or cruel at any moment to their partner (not only obssesion like they wish, because their behaviour is unhealthy from the start). So, this manhwa is actually good example for readers to show how things will go if you fall in love to a wrong person.

    That Fujoshi November 11, 2023 6:40 am
    I don't think underage people should read Yaoi from beginning (full of porn and red flag characters), not only this manhwa because it contains violence or abuse. So you should give warning to every manhwa or ma... Sapiosexual

    I especially did it for this manhua because of the fact that I've seen a few people in comments, thinking, "it's true love, seme is just jealous and loves the uke a lot"

    That Fujoshi November 11, 2023 6:43 am
    Many people are romanticising relationship with red flag characters (most ML in Yaoi are red flags with obsession). In real life, red flags character usually can turn to abusive or cruel at any moment to their ... Sapiosexual

    When did I stop anyone from reading it?? I just gave them a GENTLE REMINDER about how they should not romanticise the relationship b/w uke and his friends. Idk why you keep on cross questioning me, but it feels like you're one of those people who actually romanticise stuff like this, am I right?

    Sapiosexual November 11, 2023 8:32 am
    When did I stop anyone from reading it?? I just gave them a GENTLE REMINDER about how they should not romanticise the relationship b/w uke and his friends. Idk why you keep on cross questioning me, but it feels... That Fujoshi

    Here, I will give you some understanding. Why most ML in fiction story is redflag and redflag character is tend to be more popular rather than green flag character? Because toxic thing with red flag usually give more rollercoaster aspect when people reading this kind of stuff rather than boring and regular story with green flag character. Of course loving red flag character, reading toxic stuffs, or even ship toxic relationship in fiction doesn't mean they are normalizing it in real life. People rather put their wild fantasy only in fiction story, because they're sane enough to not engage with this kind thing in real life. Even if there are people who romanticising MC and ML in this story, it doesn't mean they're normalizing it in real life. Same like a lot of people who love red flag character, it doesn't mean they love that kind of people in real life. People who can't differentiate between fiction and reality and judge people based on that thing alone is the one who should get help actually.

    That Fujoshi November 11, 2023 8:47 am
    Here, I will give you some understanding. Why most ML in fiction story is redflag and redflag character is tend to be more popular rather than green flag character? Because toxic thing with red flag usually giv... Sapiosexual

    Ok, I get it, you're romanticising about stuff like r*pe, abuse, violence etc. But only in your fantasy. And I am not even trying to stop you. This was a gentle reminder to not normalise stuff like this in real life. I don't understand why you keep on justifying yourself because this whole gentle reminder was not for people like you. It was for people who can't differentiate b/w fiction and reality.

    Sapiosexual November 11, 2023 9:18 am
    Ok, I get it, you're romanticising about stuff like r*pe, abuse, violence etc. But only in your fantasy. And I am not even trying to stop you. This was a gentle reminder to not normalise stuff like this in real... That Fujoshi

    Yes, I like read toxic story because it's more interesting but who said I am romanticising that kind of stuff in my fantasy? I just try to give you different perspective, how most people think about toxic stuff in fiction and why red flag character is more popular in this fiction industry. Do you think most people that stupid so whenever you find people comment about romanticing toxic relationship or loving red flag character in fiction then you think they are normalizing it in real life? It's good you give reminder, but you should also remind this to people in most manhwa/manga/manhua/anime.

    That Fujoshi November 11, 2023 9:25 am
    Yes, I like read toxic story because it's more interesting but who said I am romanticising that kind of stuff in my fantasy? I just try to give you different perspective, how most people think about toxic stuff... Sapiosexual

    I would give reminders if I see people commenting about romanticising stuff like this and no one else gives them a piece of their mind ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭

    That Fujoshi November 11, 2023 9:30 am
    Yes, I like read toxic story because it's more interesting but who said I am romanticising that kind of stuff in my fantasy? I just try to give you different perspective, how most people think about toxic stuff... Sapiosexual

    Also I don't need you to give me a different perspective because I already have it. Going on and on about a different perspective really isn't gonna save you. You're just annoyed because I caught on the fact that you romanticise toxic things lol

    Sapiosexual November 11, 2023 9:38 am
    I would give reminders if I see people commenting about romanticising stuff like this and no one else gives them a piece of their mind ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭ That Fujoshi

    Do you also give people reminder to not love red flag characters? If not, it is such a hypocrisy if only commenting about to not romanticising toxic relationship because all those toxic relationship comes from those red flag characters which is so much more popular than green flag character.

    That Fujoshi November 11, 2023 9:44 am
    Do you also give people reminder to not love red flag characters? If not, it is such a hypocrisy if only commenting about to not romanticising toxic relationship because all those toxic relationship comes from ... Sapiosexual

    You're just annoyed because I caught on the fact that you romanticise toxic things lol
    But don't worry I won't judge ya because we all have some deep S. E. C. R. E. T. S.

    Sapiosexual November 11, 2023 9:56 am
    You're just annoyed because I caught on the fact that you romanticise toxic things lolBut don't worry I won't judge ya because we all have some deep S. E. C. R. E. T. S. That Fujoshi

    Now I know your logic is so low. So reading dark physological story or toxic stuff to see some different perspective and find it more interesting is same romanticising toxic stuff? How can people can be that stupid? No wonder you can't answer my question and can easily judge some people out there. Your hypocrisy and low understanding show it effortlessly.

    That Fujoshi November 11, 2023 10:34 am
    Now I know your logic is so low. So reading dark physological story or toxic stuff to see some different perspective and find it more interesting is same romanticising toxic stuff? How can people can be that st... Sapiosexual

    But the way you keep on defending yourself everytime is really stupid. I told you from the beginning, you're arguing for something which I did not even say. And you're the one who's actually hypocrite. You know why? Because of the way you keep on defending r*pists and abusers. The whole different perspective is actually a sham to fool people. But I know what you're really inside. A person who supports r*pe and probably thinks it's just an act of love. Stop bullshitting yourself. This whole thread was never meant for targeting someone and stop acting like you're being targeted because you're not but if you keep being the great defender of seeing things from a different perspective, believe me, you'll get attacked because in reality you don't care about a different perspective which explains why you've commented back and argued with me after every comment I posted. I myself read dsrk psychological thrillers and I love them, but of course I love the horror part not the a pervert's sexual fantasy of getting r*ped part. Everyone has their own fantasies and I don't judge people but I will not keep silent if I learn a r*cist, h*m*ph*bic, m*sogyn*st etc. Fantasies.