
I'm with you!..... I don't like cheating or having sex with someone while you already have a partner, especially if the person you are with was a green flag. Why not focus on something else like healing itself rather than turning back to things or someone that adds up ur trauma. Maybe if he's with the red flag seme, I'll support him to cheat , enjoy life it's fullest. but this is different , he's with a good guy.
In reality humans has different views in life, either in weakness or strength.

No kidding!! It made me cry while reading the later chapters so much but the most sad part about it is that uke went to his ex on his own because he was insecure!?
I know that seme will forgive him in the end o(╥﹏╥)o for all the things he did but still I wish he could find better partner.
I simply have no sympathies for uke honestly.
I also get that humans have different views in life but it really is not justifiable to drag an innocent person into ones misery and ruin his life too, that's just pathetic at that point.
Youre absolutely correct on uke healing himself first not everything can be excused as trauma.
I've never seen such a trash uke ever in all the stories I've read, cheats again and again, f*cks other guy all because of his insecurity again goes back f*cking ex but not once thought how seme would feel.
Doesn't hold any accountability, reason-trauma!!?
Doesn't communicate, reason- trauma!!?
Would cheat, reason-trauma!!?
Broke heart of our one of the greenest flag seme,reason-trauma!!?
Even after getting caught, again goes f*cking ex,reason-trauma!!?
That ex, really piss me off!!!
For all I know is that trauma is not an excuse to cheat on someone and give trauma to others......
And to all those very 'understanding' people in comments I would really wanna see what you'll do if you get someone like this in your life, would you be this understanding by saying, "ofcourse babe you can cheat on me as I know you've trauma and this is the only way you can heal, don't communicate just f*ck not me but others", I bet you'll be running for your life, so don't preach how innocent uke is when something is wrong it is wrong.
**I know it's fiction and all but I'm simply being bitter.( ̄^ ̄)