And this is why I never believe rumors or 'he said she said' BS. The person who spreads it...

MonMon1001 November 23, 2023 12:01 am

And this is why I never believe rumors or 'he said she said' BS. The person who spreads it could have malicious intent. I've heard and seen too many of them back in school and on the internet that I became to be "Proof or it didn't happen" kind of person.

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    Sumer November 23, 2023 1:54 am

    Do people actually believe them? In my experience, rumours don't hold up if noone saw anything happen.....plus Maythan stays out of trouble in general too

    MonMon1001 November 23, 2023 3:15 am
    Do people actually believe them? In my experience, rumours don't hold up if noone saw anything happen.....plus Maythan stays out of trouble in general too Sumer

    Unfortunately, it does. My aunt-in-law told me a story how her cousin thought she betrayed her over something and spread rumors and lies about my aunt. Even my aunt's friends believed those lies and wouldn't talk to her for weeks. When my aunt found out who it was that was spreading the lies and even confronted her cousin, her cousin was just 'Oh I thought you betrayed me first. Sorry' or along those line. My aunt had to go around school, clearing it up with her friends. It was after this that my aunt learned who her real friends are.

    Then there was my history teacher back in high school that got arrested because his cheating wife planted drugs in his car and called the police that he was selling drugs to students. The whole school was buzzing with "Mr. [my history teacher] was caught with drugs in his car" for a few days until the investigation came out and told us it was the wife that planted the drugs because she was cheating on him with a coach in this very same school. The evidence was the text messages she was sending to the coach and there were no finger prints of my teacher, but the coach's and the wife's. So yeah, almost the whole school believed my teacher was a drug dealer until evidence came out to tell us otherwise. But the stupidest thing I heard years later was that my teacher got back with his cheating wife again.

    Sumer November 23, 2023 5:33 am
    Unfortunately, it does. My aunt-in-law told me a story how her cousin thought she betrayed her over something and spread rumors and lies about my aunt. Even my aunt's friends believed those lies and wouldn't ta... MonMon1001

    *sigh* now I think, rumours are very damaging indeed. People believe what they want to, and they definitely take joy in "administering justice" for people "who did wrong" by shunning them, hating them.
    What the hell's wrong with your history teacher tho....man...

    MonMon1001 November 23, 2023 5:38 am
    *sigh* now I think, rumours are very damaging indeed. People believe what they want to, and they definitely take joy in "administering justice" for people "who did wrong" by shunning them, hating them.What the ... Sumer

    Don't know either. He was like in his early 30s back then and he had... I think... 3 kids with her? Can't wrap my mind around people who are okay with getting back with a cheater, on top of them also trying to get you jailed. ┑( ̄Д  ̄)┍