she understands him the most. that's why she stayed by his side and tried to help him change for the better even when he was making her suffer. but she has a limit too and her partner supposedly killing her parent is a very reasonable one it was the one thing she asked of him and it seemed like he violated that.
okay but what’s her fault? just like the person above me said everyone has a limit. she’s lived a very very hard life and deserves a break, not a mentally ill partner that is abusive towards her. although he loves her he does not change his violent tendencies and he makes it extremely hard for her to even consider leaving him. nothing is her fault he didn’t defend himself and thought he killed her dad as well. it’s not that crazy to leave your already abusive boyfriend who just killed your dad.
But he didnt kill her dad? Hes also lived a very hard life, and he isnt THAT abusive towards her, hes trying to change himself for her, she should know that he loves her to the point he would kill everyone for her, Im not hating on her I js want her to realize that some of the things he is doing should be allowed to, I hate when ppl think "peace" will always solve problems, it can but it doesn't, for most things. But like I js hope that they both get better
Yeah i know that’s why she called him when she found out. abuse is abuse and he is very abusive towards her for example, he would be upset whne she hung out with her friends, he made it impossible for her to even talk to a guy, he makes her feel guilty for not staying with him 24/7, and he doesn’t respect her wishes at all. she told him that she doesn’t liek whne he gets violent because she grew up with a violent man and he still
kept his tendencies, even if he was trying to change it’s not her fault for being upset at how long it’s taking for him to do something that so important for her. peace doesn’t solve problems your right but communication does and they both struggle with that. in this relationship i see alot of people blaming her and hating on her when the ml makes it impossible to even have a healthy relationship. although they both have their faults she’s healing and trying to heal but he’s not. loving someone to the point you’ll kill for them is pretty common but yk what isn’t? beating up a guy to the point he’s hospitalized just for thinking about her. and what things should he be “allowed” to do?
Not allowed but like when he tries to beat up certain type of people for her and he has a valid point, atp any lover would get man when finding out that there gf/bf was abused or not. Yes and your're also right, he did kind of manipulate her or smth but like thats all bc of the way he grew up, he was literally hospitalized and mentally stuck inside his body. Ofc hes gonna do sum crazy shi because they're alike, but yea I see ur point. I js want these 2 dumbos too fix all their problems and have a healthy relationship
Hes trying so hard to change for her but she isnt. Ik shes let him do stuff she doesnt like but like by now shes supposed to know how he is and the reason WHY hes like that. Like Ms Girl u want peace w yo parents and everyone else but yo man is struggling no hate, but pls may they both get better