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yesss thissss ive had this thought so many times like its not a straight couple there doesn’t have to be a designated man/woman role their masculinity is not compromised by being bottom sometimes omg
I think it’s because writers prefer to have a specific dynamic set for their characters. I imagine that in real life they might compromise but this is fiction so oh well. Plus from what I remember the white haired guy just doesn’t seem comfortable with the idea of bottoming and the MC, despite being a top, doesn’t mind bottoming for his bf.
You something that’s been on my mind for some time while reading BLs, is the whole who tops who bottoms nonsense. Why is it that majority of BLs would make a gay man that has always been a top suddenly switch to an uke because a new top/love interest is in the picture?
I mean why can’t there be a compromise and they both be switch? It never made sense to me how at first you see a top now made an uke and you could see majority of the time they take time to actually get into being on the receiving end. I mean is it so taboo to make them a switch and also satisfy the other people’s sexual needs?
Anyway, just my take on the whole thing coz I never really understood why that can’t be an option.