am i the only one finding the he8ght difference off putting? i mean i get thats the whole ...

Gucciha_$a$uke December 18, 2023 9:24 am

am i the only one finding the he8ght difference off putting? i mean i get thats the whole premise of the story but its kinda uncomfortable, glad this is only shonen ai

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    Gemma December 18, 2023 1:20 pm

    I mean Keaton (the shorter one) is 5 feet tall which isn’t that crazy

    Gucciha_$a$uke December 18, 2023 1:56 pm

    no its not but idk its just weird that next to the top he looks like a kid

    iku December 18, 2023 8:09 pm
    no its not but idk its just weird that next to the top he looks like a kid Gucciha_$a$uke

    You know a lot of asian x white couples are like this right? As a south east asian, at this point I'm tired of people saying this height gap is like an adult x child and that's really uncomfortable for us to hear too as if we're not aware how we're effing short enough people around mostly Karens say this a lot to us.

    It's like our fault for being short or looking younger than our partners????

    MangoRice December 18, 2023 8:10 pm

    Honestly, it's not even the height difference, it's how he behaves that makes it kind of..off
    Like sure, he has that puppy personality but this is how I imagine a 13 year old acting, not a 21 year old

    iku December 18, 2023 8:11 pm
    no its not but idk its just weird that next to the top he looks like a kid Gucciha_$a$uke

    and to add to this, it's like accusing our partners to prefer kid looking partner (aka us)???

    I know this is fiction but it also represents a lot of irl couple.

    At the end it is how you perceived it. To us, this is just two adults with height gap (which is also common again for us asians).

    iku December 18, 2023 8:16 pm
    Honestly, it's not even the height difference, it's how he behaves that makes it kind of..off Like sure, he has that puppy personality but this is how I imagine a 13 year old acting, not a 21 year old MangoRice

    You'd be surprised how many 25+ year olds in asia have this kawaii teehee personality especially among the weeb community and those into the cute lolita fashion and other fashion subcultures that lean into cute things. I know cause I'm the eldest among siblings and people mistake me being the youngest in contrast to my younger brothers + they are much taller than me.

    Maybe that's why I did not perceive this the way you guys do. The author is south east asian as well so might also be a culture & norma thing idk

    Gucciha_$a$uke December 18, 2023 8:38 pm

    oh my god guys calm down its just my opinion i know people with a height difference exist and i dont have any problems with those people.
    maybe im just too strict with this kinda stuff but i didnt personally call anyone a pedophile or short people children. i personally just find it weird. read it all you want though idgaf

    MangoRice December 18, 2023 8:39 pm
    You'd be surprised how many 25+ year olds in asia have this kawaii teehee personality especially among the weeb community and those into the cute lolita fashion and other fashion subcultures that lean into cute... iku

    It's probably that, a lot of people would be really off put if someone acted like that in real life
    It's okay to act like this until the age of...like 15, but it just feels off afterwards
    And while I know a lot of people who are in this way cute, it's never to this extreme or this one note, ig

    忘れていたよ!!!! December 19, 2023 2:29 am
    It's probably that, a lot of people would be really off put if someone acted like that in real life It's okay to act like this until the age of...like 15, but it just feels off afterwards And while I know a lot... MangoRice

    I also found it off putting, more than his height and childlike personality (I'm 4'11 and a baby just like him) I honestly think he's viewed as a real middle schooler.. A LOT.. also maybe there's too much emphasis on him being small but that's part of the whole plot so idrc but he genuinely looks like 9 years old in some panels, and everyone asking "is he legal" makes me tweak a little.

    However they do seem like a really good couple, that's all! it's normal for people to feel uncomfy specially when the size difference is sooo much and the personality of the smaller one is rather childlike.

    Both of yalls opinions are acceptable and can coexist!

    crustyasslips December 19, 2023 3:57 am
    You know a lot of asian x white couples are like this right? As a south east asian, at this point I'm tired of people saying this height gap is like an adult x child and that's really uncomfortable for us to he... iku

    Ain’t no one was talking about you or the real world it about the story rant somewhere else

    Gucciha_$a$uke December 19, 2023 9:28 pm
    Ain’t no one was talking about you or the real world it about the story rant somewhere else crustyasslips

    thank you
    being a short person dating a tall person irl is much more different than a person purposely choosing to draw a romantic story about a couple where the person looks and acts like a 13 year old. same with people sexualising child like anime characters, they are made like that on purpose and its pretty obvious its not to represent short girls.

    JINLOVEMITSUYA December 20, 2023 6:14 am
    It's probably that, a lot of people would be really off put if someone acted like that in real life It's okay to act like this until the age of...like 15, but it just feels off afterwards And while I know a lot... MangoRice

    author just wanted people to buy his comic with cute character ,nothing wrong with that. the thing that i can't really accept is in other comics they draw the men exactly like a woman. that's more weird for me,woman face with male body. this one is more acceptable for me, because i am sure there are cute people like him.i watched on youtube gay couple ,the shorter one he is like a character from the yaoi ,his personalities and i was a bit shocked .this kind of people exist. he is adult although it's not the same like this one but when he with his husband they gave that cute vibes .like this comic

    crustyasslips December 20, 2023 1:53 pm
    author just wanted people to buy his comic with cute character ,nothing wrong with that. the thing that i can't really accept is in other comics they draw the men exactly like a woman. that's more weird for me,... JINLOVEMITSUYA

    Um you were shocked short gay men exist?

    JINLOVEMITSUYA December 21, 2023 3:31 am
    Um you were shocked short gay men exist? crustyasslips

    no not that ,i meant i was shocked because of their personalities the same like yaoi character .and their interaction ,the couple i saw on youtube almost the same like this comic ,the cute vibes . the other person i replied he didn't believe there is person like that so i only told him what i know.

    Gucciha_$a$uke December 21, 2023 8:05 am
    no not that ,i meant i was shocked because of their personalities the same like yaoi character .and their interaction ,the couple i saw on youtube almost the same like this comic ,the cute vibes . the other per... JINLOVEMITSUYA

    that still doesn't mean that an adult person acting all cutesy like some 12 year old is normal lol. being a lovey dovey is a thing but some of these stories really portray adult men like some helpless child.