I mean he's kinda right though. If he wants to stay by his side he needs to be more assertive and confident. Still not super healthy but, not necessarily completely wrong either
Sometimes its not what you say but how you say it. It came off rather like an ultimatum, and not one benefitting both parties, either. I mean, who doesn't want their partner to have more confidence? But WW was getting along just fine before SA and he can do it again. The one thing a lot of people don't realize (especially those with abandonment issues) is that you don't NEED another person in order to be happy. You just want them there. Thats a big difference. WW has a quiet confidence and asurity when necessary. He is willing to change but it needs to be for himself. If you change for someone else, it's never healthy because it's for the wrong reasons so it will never stick or never be enough for the other person because it's not sincere or is lacking in some manner for them. This will eventually cause one of two things (sometimes a combination of both): resentment and/or loss of one's self. Having confidence in yourself is always a good thing, but forcing someone else to adopt your way of confidence and to do it at your pace is not. So I agree and disagree with your statement. Lol
I guess its not surprising that he has abandonment issues, but damn, that's a bad case right there thats heading straight into obsession. It is so not healthy to force anyone to change for you, period. Considering what he's been through, I'm actually surprised he thinks that that's okay. Woowon is going to tell him no and then the shit is gonna hit the fan. Well, that's if he doesn't force himself on Woowon in this next chapter (guess we will see if Woowon is cut out to bottom). I have a bad feeling that Woowon is about to get a serious scare and is going to run away if he can't find a way to calm Seo-an down before he doesn't something he can't take back. And if he runs away...well, Seo-an is going to spiral for sure. Damn, damn, and double-damn.