Wow. It's beyond me you think extreme actions like these are okay? Why would any logical person do something like that to their own family? Yeah sure both the grandfather and the father are ignorant of their children's gay lifestyle but does that warrant being sued? Having a sit down and civilized conversation on the topic at hand wasn’t even your first thought. This just reminds me of those crazy psycho running around forcing people to use their weird pronouns because they're so emotionally sensitive and immature. Not that it's anyone's business, that's coming from a gay who went through the whole coming out to his SUPER religious and conservative family...
Okay wow. I agree with the "don't have to sue" point you made,
But let's not be transphobic or bigoted now.
1) nobody is "forcing" anybody to use their preferred pronouns on the street. If you don't respect their pronouns they'll just leave you.
2) Are you saying people that use they/them or neopronouns as emotionally sensitive and immature? Like??
3) Sorry that you felt unsafe/uncomfortable to come out to your family. They're your family, they should love you unconditionally but that doesn't mean everyone's experience or reaction to homophobia is the same.
First of all, talking in a civilized manner would never be applicable to anyone especially if the family is very homophobic.
I've seen people who did come out from their families because they thought that it would make them understand and accept for who they are but it's a "NO".
Some of the LGBTQ+ that I knew were disowned or if not beaten just to act "NORMAL''.
First of all, talking in a civilized manner would never be applicable to anyone especially if the family is very homophobic.
I've seen people who did come out from their families because they thought that it would make them understand and accept for who they are but it's a "NO".
Some of the LGBTQ+ that I know were disowned or if not beaten just to act "NORMAL''.
Usually I do not reply to anyone even remotely transphobic, doesn't matter of they are gay or not.
But I think I need to now because
1) this is a literal work of fiction; it's not real life. So chill and don't get triggered.
2) if we suspend the disbelief, they are an extremely wealthy family, both the sons and the parents+grandparents (at least it's what yhe author implies). So, since the family looks like very homophobic, chances are they could be the one to sue both the sons (or just Dowon), also because Korea is a fairly homophobic county where everyone sues everyone else every other day (just look at the big scandals in the kpop industries, where nobodies sue idols on the base of bulling happened in the past, that sometimes it's even completely false accusations. But let's not digress).
3) IF (capitalized to stress that this is an hypothesis about the future of the plot) the family doesn't accepts Dowon (and Dojin) and cuts them out of inheritance et similia, the sons have every right to ask what's theirs back, even through a court of law. And being Dojin a very good lawyer, he probably knows best. Even more so if the family entagles Dowon into a marriage contract (and thanks to Korean dramas, we know it's possible) then Dowon will have many a legal problems and so he will be right to sue his family for basically marrying him off without his consent.
Sorry for the lenghty reply, I really hope you chill and stop with the transphobic remarks.
P.s. I am queer and non binary, just so you know where I am coming from.
Hahaha good for you. I stopped reading as soon as you called me transphobic. There's no reason to continue this conversation. It's like talking to stupidity. Have a nice life bruh.
You mean like talking to your mirror ?
The maturity of this answer is on an all time low. Have a good life too, sis.
Hahaha! Same could be said of you and no I'm not a "sis" weren't you advocating for gender and pronouns? Even went as far as calling me transphobic, but here you are being an hypocrite misgendering someone else. That's why you can't talk to stupid. What a f**king joke!
Hahaha! Same could be said of you and no I'm not a "sis" weren't you advocating for gender and pronouns? Even went as far as calling me transphobic, but here you are being an hypocrite misgendering someone else. That's why you can't talk to stupid. What a f**king joke
It really feels like I'm talking to someone under the age of 18, but since you said nothing about your age, I don't know.
You also said nothing about your gender (or if you did, I didn't understand it, English is not my first language), so I just called you a general sis, like many people do in queer communities where I live.
I also want to point out that 1) I am not a "bruh", and I did state my gender (nonbinary) on my previous comment, so you willingly misgendered me first; 2) for someone that said that didn't want to/didn't finish to read my previous comment, you did spend your time reading something even when I kindly suggested you to chill and not get triggered.
You can call me whatever you want, it will be your truth, not mine.
Now I will stop commenting here to someone clearly so full of hate and anger. I have better things to do with my life than argue pointlessly with people on the internet that clearly don't want a civil discussion. I have my to-read list of BLs waiting for me.
And off course they blocked me. So mature, really.
It irks me a bit that even if the mother likely knows/suspects Dowon (and maybe Dojin too) to be gay/not straight, she still doesn't say anything and lets her husband and father in law arrange everything without Dowon's consent.
These men where free to do whatever they wanted for most of their adult life, they have a shit-ton of money each, why is their family bothering them??? Dojin should sue the hell out of his family, both for his sake and Dowon's sake