One thing that people lack of is understanding, especially on those who is suffering psychologically. And it's much harder on those people who just sees everything and can't even do anything but to just understand, be patient and hold on to until the storm dies down.
agree. you just took the words out of my mouth.
Ur looking at it very one sidedly no? There are many ways u can interpret this chapter, rightfully so because it’s strange, we don’t see rape w complex factors in it like this manwha, as you said most of the time its very obvious . Also the “people who are saying its rape have clearly never been in this situation before” Is pretty insensitive and hurtful, bc u never know.
If we’re basing our views off of things we know from our own experiences, or just from our knowledge, it’s a myth that mentally ill people rape because they cannot help themselves, (not saying thats what ur saying im just using an example) in fact, most people who are mentally ill are more likely to be the victim than the perpetrator, due to their mental illness, and most likely their vulnerability. Idk i feel like it was uncalled for and unnecessary. Really made me upset but ig we all need to expect this when reading
Please don’t get upset w me im just using my experiences and my psych major I understand we’re yr coming from by the way. Im not coming at ur throat.
IT IS RAPE! By definition rape is non-consensual intercourse. Ww has not once voiced that he wanted to have sex with seoan in this chapter. Just because it doesn't fit the usual image of rape that we see doesn't mean it isn't! Seoan might be doing it to hurt himself but ww did not say yes to have intercourse also being mentally ill only justifies your action, it doesn't excuse them.
Preachhhh!!! But we don’t need this tho. Why do they always turn to sex when they angry in BL… act like fking human. Anyways, this is complex type of rape that isn’t so obvious. One thing my AP classes taught me was to look deeper. And this was clearly unconsensual. Doesn’t matter what the perpetrator thought, the victim did not want it right then and there. If he had asked and got a yes before doing it, that would be consensual and true love.
Oh also u saying that he “couldve stopped at any moment” is kind of sick?… Like if ur looking at it psychologically you must understand fight flight or freeze am i right? Woo won was experiencing the ‘freeze’ aspect due to the fact that he didn’t want to have sex and he didn’t want to hurt Seo an because he knows that he suffers mentally.. so what do you do in that moment , you freeze. Very insensitive for you to say that.
Now the ball is in ww's court! We all know that he won't get mad at seoan and instead try to find out what is wrong with him (which is good)!. But just because seoan has a reason and ww will not see it as rape doesn't mean it isn't.
Ps. Plz don't come for my head
Omg u took AP psych in high school??? Slayyyyy!! AP psych was my fav class thats why I love getting into debates like this. But i totally agree with you. I think with a lot of rape being kinda common in this media it kinda blurs the lines for some people and its sad. Someone even said that if someone coerces you to have sex with them it isnt rape. Absolutely wild…
I meant AP in general, but ya. I love debates as well . Saying that someone coercing you into sex isn’t rape is wild. People have lost their sanity.
No one should come for your head, you said the right thing! Thank you!
Bl readers have lost their sanity you don't see this much delusion in other manhwuas
So true! I wish the authors would write better scenes…and I wish the better ones were more famous so I could actually see them and be able to read them.
People saying it's rape clearly have never been in this situation before. Sea An is trying to hurt himself not woo won, that's why woo won was telling him to stop, he could've stopped it at any second like we saw at the end if the chapter, but he just wants to understand why Sea an is angry, people are way too oversensitive, go preach about it under other VERY OBVIOUS manhwas with rape.