I just want to remind everyone that in real life, injuring your partner with scratches, bi...

raindragon December 27, 2016 1:29 am

I just want to remind everyone that in real life, injuring your partner with scratches, bites, and hickeys is likely to illicit tears, get you yelled at, or even broken up with. Such injuries hurt like hell. Scratching is not a reflex reaction to ecstatic passion. It's a deliberate assault. Hickeys or "Love Bites" are considered sex injuries, can leave permanent scars, and there are cases where people have died from them. In defense of our mangakas, we've got to remember that scratches, hickeys, etc. are plot devices used as evidence that two people have been intimate. They're symbols of something that's all but impossible to illustrate in pictures, and I have no problem with them in mangas.

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    sanattia December 28, 2016 10:39 pm

    who hurt you

    raindragon December 29, 2016 5:17 pm
    who hurt you sanattia

    I guess experience teaches. Thank you for asking. It's nice of you. I've never been scratched, and the person who tries to put a hickey on me will get whatever it takes to stop them, so I've never had one of those. The thing is, I've been on the sm scene in New York City, and I've visited sm/bd groups like the Eulenspiegel Society of NY, and the Black Rose of Washington DC. There are groups like them all over the country. They promote safe practices and give how-to have-safe-play seminars. I guess I'm an advocate. I don't like shitty dangerous ignorant acts masqerading as passionate sex.

    Kurosan December 30, 2016 12:36 pm

    C'mon... those mark is just the way to express your love.. everyone love hickeys.. haha

    Kurosan December 30, 2016 12:41 pm
    I guess experience teaches. Thank you for asking. It's nice of you. I've never been scratched, and the person who tries to put a hickey on me will get whatever it takes to stop them, so I've never had one of... raindragon

    Im agree with u about this one..

    raindragon December 30, 2016 11:12 pm
    C'mon... those mark is just the way to express your love.. everyone love hickeys.. haha Kurosan

    LOL

    raindragon December 30, 2016 11:13 pm
    Im agree with u about this one.. Kurosan

    thanks, kurosan

    Love December 31, 2016 4:35 pm

    Haha thanks for the advice mate. Never been in a real relationship before (haha too young, why the hell am I even here reading Yaoi mangaΣ(  ̄□ ̄||))

    raindragon December 31, 2016 6:24 pm
    Haha thanks for the advice mate. Never been in a real relationship before (haha too young, why the hell am I even here reading Yaoi mangaΣ(  ̄□ ̄||)) @Love

    thank you for the honesty, ya brat! JK LOL. What a great name LOVE is.