
well yeah, but as i said, no one will call a 20 yo a dilf even if they are a parent, but would call a 40 yo one. that's just how people at large use these terms, so no point talking about a wrong usage - looking like a potential parent prevailes over actually being one in calling someone a milf or a dilf. vibe of a dilf >>>> having a kid basically

i do not misunderstand anything. what i am saying is that these old men not being dads does not matter, so no one is "using dilf wrong", as you initially stated. it's all about looks, not paternity. even if you look up the actual definition you'll see that dilf is "a sexually attractive older man, ***typically*** one who has children", meaning a dilf could be easily just an attractive old man, like in this manga. bruh. so yeah, it could be any guy, if they look the part.
Dilf literally translate to (dad I'd like to fuck) , they aren't dads lol but they are older like a dilf could be 20