I mean is it really cause she just like me fr. It is a constant thought especially if yk your sibling or friend is gay and likes someone and that someone seemingly likes them back the same way. Yea now my next thought is who top and who bottom. It’s a curiosity with the dynamics.
That's nasty, pls don't be weird and stop, I don't wonder what my sister does in bed with her bf
this is why people dont like fujos. both the stereotyping and fucking obsessions with who tops/bottoms is freaking weird. and they often see no issue
do you care this much about straight peoples dynamics?? no?? then you fetishize gay men. its freaking weird and also usually is based on blatant stereotypes. get some boundaries and STOP
Realll !! And it ruins goos stories all is going good and then this one female character gets introduced and all she thinks about is their sex lives like wtf it happens so often in stories and like you said they see no issue with this behaviour so they keep writing characters like this , which is gross. Gosh It’s gotten so annoying
No, it does not include the heterosexuals but also it’s not imagining what they do in bed. It’s more about understanding the dynamics in the relationship. You can tell a lot about whose top and whose bottom.
All I have to say is did she say she was imagining them, no she said she knew he was top based on looks and behavior, she understood the dynamics. For y’all to all assume she imagining what’s going on in bed says a lot about you all as people and the thoughts you all have. Also to be talking about Fujoshis and yet to be reading through a yaoi again seems like a lot of self hate. If you don’t like Fujoshis don’t be where the Fujoshis would be. Yet here you are so do better, get better, be better.
NO YOU CANT!!!! because youre just blatantly utilizing stereotype!! you cannot tell who likes to take it up their butthole. also, forgetting that tons of couples switch because theyre NOT like most heterosexual couples. GOD i hate fujos
also u can read BL without identifying as a fujo cuz the fujo community is full of fetishizing garbage ppl who have no issue with heteronormaitve stereotypes, weird behavior, and the romanticization of SA in BL.
No offence I don’t really agree with your point of view .what I’m saying is as a girl who does read bl I’m allowed to be putt off when a female character like the one in this manga is just reduced to a girl who thinks about who’s top and bottom. I’ve seen it so many times it just feels weird because I and many other women who read the genre don’t think like that so it ends up being off putting. This one was pretty tame but others I’ve seen have where even weirder . it’s just sad that they can’t make girls react normally to two men being gay . Also you don’t have to be a fujo to read bl . We can read whatever we want and still have an opinion I’d have the same view if a guy reacted like that too two girls coming out yk,
its cuz unfortunately it seems the majority of fujos are like that esp in japan. so many just treat real gay people like theyre characters from manga that they can fetishize. zero separation between fiction and reality, and then these representations perpetuate it
Totally agree it’s just so icky kinda makes you ashamed to say you read the genre lol fujos can be quite extra
No of course you can feel whatever way you want about whoever all I asked if it was really weird and then said she was just like me fr (thinking it’s be funny). I understood and had no problem with what you said. Nor did you bring up anything about hating Fujoshis in that sense so that comment wasn’t for you. We were having a civil discussion which I’m always open to. Just as you respectfully said you don’t agree with my p.o.v and I completely understood and was okay with that. The people who were somewhat respectful to my comment got a pretty respectable reply. As a psychology Major who is probably more sociable than Kittykay commenter. I just like discussing things but by the visceral reactions my one little comment got. Ofc I would think wow maybe it’s a self hate thing cause Fujoshis are few but many and are often socially awkward and come off as aggressive. I was just trying to figure out why that little group of people deserved hate for a comment I left. Also was trying to figure out why I was assumed to be one when I’m just a ambiguously chaotic person on the internet making silly comments that could and should’ve been ignored.
It’s really nice that we were able to have a good conversation . From the get go I saw that you didn’t mean any harm in your comment and the thread might have gotten out of hand but still it’s nice to share different opinions in a civil way lol . Their are definitely girls who say they are fujos and don’t act obsessed with gay men , my comment was just to complain about how characters like this give a bad rep to the women who read the genre cause then they get labeled as many other bad things like fetishizers . Well anyway just wanted to say I see where your coming from :)
fujoshis can rot. i hate them and the way they perceive my people. stop reading yaoi, stop creating it, forget we exist.
YUPPP. i will never identify as a fujoshi ever
yup. i feel like theres such a difference between ppl who casually read BL and are aware of how a lot of tropes are not okay, and fujoshis
I don't think you can just tell by looking, that's dumb. But I'd be lying if I said I wasn't wondering whose top and whose bottom. I wonder the same thing with most relationships honestly gay,lesbian, and heterosexual. Frankly I'm curios about what everyone's doing in bed. I think the problematic part is asking or making assumptions about a person based on what they like in bed. That's weird and invasive and none of my business. So I would never ask but yeah definitely curious, and I don't think that's a problem
no it actually is wrong and super fucking weird
you are a fetishizer and you need to fucking stop. like thats incredibly violating even if the people dont know....
I always find it weird when they bring a girl character and all she thinks about is who’s bottom or top and that she really likes boys love like come on it’s so embarrassing