Not really, you dont really have to have intercourse to live together lmaoo?
What is different than being roommates then lol
It's mainly to show that you can live with another person cause sometimes you find out that it's impossible. Some people are good at a distance, but once you are in each others space all the time you find out if you can handle that or not. That's why I don't get people who don't live together before they are married cause I'm like what if you hate how they live...
You can still have feelings for each other ?? I dont see the problem here
Same thing w sex, u need to see how it goes because love without sex is not gonna be secure in a real relationship.
Spoken like a true virgin
I think it’s actually a good thing that he’s serious about her, wants to live with her, but isn’t making it hinge on sex.
It’s clear he wants to very much but he knows she isn’t ready so he’s willing to wait for her. If she ends up being bad at it that is okay. In time she can learn. If he loves her he will be patient with her.
For what it’s worth I’m in a relationship that’s lasted a couple years now and we live together. If he loves her he will wait and not push it. Any guy that is forceful and won’t wait isn’t worth it.
Ok :(
I agree plus she's new to so many things and having that shoved on you right away can be scary for some people. He's been nice and respectful to her and is allowing her to get comfortable with him which speaks volumes to how much he likes her it's adorable.
Oh no I completely agree with this as well don't get me wrong. Both are important in a relationship. But you don't have to rush into sex right away cause being pushed before your ready can also contribute to it being bad you know? He's allowing her to grow comfortable with her cause if shes getting red and dizzy from just a kiss girls gonna pass out with anything further. lol
real
The people have never seen sex and the city and it shows ! Yall need to check sexual compatibility before you end up married to an impotent loser
Lmao why are u being rude to them. You dk if they are just bc they think differently
im not being rude. only "virgins" aka people with no real experience with sex would think that relationships can safely develop into living together phase when you dont even know your sex compatibility before moving together. i mean this is a shojo manga so i doubt that people reading this would look at this realistically but in real life sex determinates a lot.
I understand you have strong beliefs about the importance of sexual compatibility in relationships, and I get what you mean. However, making assumptions about other people's experiences and dismissing their perspectives as unrealistic is not fair or helpful. The truth is, every relationship is unique, with different needs and values. For some couples, sexual intimacy plays a central role early on. But for others, emotional connection and life partnership may be more important at first. There are many valid ways to develop a relationship over time. It’s not the same for everyone.
Spoken like a true virgin
Sex isn’t everything to a relationship. I feel like this is common sense. But ig to you, it is. It’s important to be open minded.
What you said here already says enough about you. So I won’t argue anymore bc it’s clear my point won’t get through. Not everyone has the same values…
Sex isnt a value, its a human need.
Not everyone though asexual people do exist. Everyone is different. ╮(￣▽￣)╭
Moving in w someone before sex is insane