Responses

You can't argue logic with yaoi rape .... There is rape fantasy that plays with a more realistic depiction of rape ... and then there is this 'rape as cute and romantic' yaoi version that never gets called rape and quick starts a 'cute' relationship. It makes the story ridiculous. In this one, the abused is practically apologizing to his rapist. WTF.
Having another man's penis forced into your body must hurt, especially since an anus is not self-lubricated. Furthermore, said man insults you while doing it.
Rape is rape. Humiliation is humiliation. No going around it.