
girl be so fucking for real. Men can be fem but these authors are drawing the bottoms and making them fit into "the role of the girl". If you think the bottom is "the girls role" in a gay relationship thats what fetishizing is. what im saying is that if its gonna be bl, then should the characters both look like men?

either you aren't aware of you are just uk stupid.
Imma be honest a girls taking so much interest in who should be top or bottom between a relationship of two men is called fetishizing.
It is sometimes extreme but it is still fetishizing. I mean why should there even be a topic like feminine man shouldn't be bottom/top(even regarding them with there sex position is fetishizing)

the last part you said i do agree with tho. The problem is A LOT of the community cant get that fact into their head. So like on this manga when something is different from the normal they read, they say its “wrong”. I only used the example of fem men cuz the majority of people who fetishize gay relationships call the bottom the “wife” or other terms like that, when clearly their gender is male.
don't worry Mahiro you can monopolize him even as a femboy, and no BL with a feminine top and masculine bottom exists so a feminine bottom and masculine top are not consistent in BL that fujoshi knows nothing