
i have experienced sexual assault so calling this the R word is rude to victims like us, also i have a partner he does this but when i said I don't want it he doesn't force me, just like what the seme did when he woke up. Did he get angry and said he doesn't want it? No right it means it's okay for him, they love each other and sometimes consent is not passed through words alone sometimes it can also be through actions, also the seme is a grown ass man even if the uke were to do that and he doesn't like it he could just make him stop it by pushing him away and getting angry and offended.

I'm SA victim too so trying to silence me with that is just wrong if this wasn't rape it wouldn't be in the LAW, since rape suddenly is subjective and vibes only and MC is still asleep, he doesn't remember anything in the next chapter so that argument doesn't work as well and even if he woke up obviously MC wouldn't react realistically cause it's BL, they all have romanticized rape I can't believe that I need to explain that fucking with someone while they're unconscious is rape damn

No I'm not trying to silence you because from my view, your making it seem like the r word is like this when in reality its not, its disrespectful for you to assume that im trying to silence you when i have experience the same thing. Also voicing my opinion doesn't mean im silencing someone, just because I don't agree that this is the r word, im saying this as i have a partner too, and i already said that if the seme doesn't want it he could fight back, thats what i did when it happened to me i fought for my life and that is what i believe as the R word.

Y’all it is literally not that serious. The story is about 2 guys who have trouble communicating their feelings so their true feelings end up bursting out in weird ways/unexpected situations.
The artist does this trope so many times in the story - We see it in the beginning when the MC kept groping the ML’s chest accidentally all the time. We see it again when the MC and ML had sex the first time but the MC thought he was dreaming. This time it’s the ML that can’t communicate a feeling and it ends up coming out another way…
I doubt this would be so contentious if the uploader didn’t add that disclaimer claiming ML had “raging jealousy” when the artist actually states in the webtoon that it’s possessiveness brought on by the fact that the ML has never wanted/cared about something like this before in his life so it’s all new to him. Also, boy is drunk and confused too. The intent was never to show someone waking up and choosing violence like the disclaimer claims.

that's what im saying like its not that deep, but this guy kept attacking me and saying how im trying to silence him when i was just saying that it's not the r word ( my view ) also this is natural for couples, sometimes consent is not just passed through words, like this scene if the guy doesn't like it then he will say it to the uke, and the uke more likely would have stopped and apologize.

hey babes, being a victim doesnt mean youre correct. i am too and i have done research on what rape and rape culture are. what occured in this BL is definitively RAPE. he had sex with him without consent while he was asleep and also drunk out of his mind. you should be ASHAMED that youre perpetuating rape culture
Korean readers: that’s hot
Foreign readers: that’s assault