What? So BC this guy (Mafuyu) was in a relationship with his soulmate (who unfortunately killed himself) and had sex with him, he isn't/ wasn't pure? WTF! And what do you mean by lecture? There isn't any human being on earth who wants to experience the same shit as Mafuyu did! Don't be so naive.
No one, but calm down a bit. It's not because you're getting angry at me that I'll change my opinion lol. I feel cheated, okay ?
If he really did love that guy, he should keep the mourning longer, and not acting like some princess, already ready to love another guy and be this easy attached to Uecchi. If that girl didn't say nothing about Mafuyu's past, and if Mafuyu didn't met bis camrade again, we would never know about Yuki or the fact that hé had sex etc... So, even if he looks pure, he's not so pure anymore. Uecchi deserves someone who really loves him.
I get what you mean because everytime it happens to me a plot about a character that loses his beloved one I feel sad for the next person that will end up with the main character. I uderstand that there is more than one love in every life and it is right this way, but I believe that in each person's life exists only one great love, so in this case I feel like Yuki was the great love of Mafuyu's life and that there will always be his shadow in the relationship between Uecchi and Mafuyu. I'd also wanted that Uecchi would have been the first for Mafuyu but it's not thins way and I accept that even if it hurts a bit, because even in real life happens to meet the right person after some wrong persons and you can't do anything about it (I don't mean that Yuki was a wrong persons for Mafuyu). Mafuyu just fall in love with a boy, he thought that they would have been together forever but Yuki died, and then he meets Uecchi and starts to feel something, but he had his experiences, what could he do about it? Nothing, because what is done is done. It's not my cup of tea but I din't know it would turned this way, even I prefer a story with one lovelife, 'cause I know that in real life this isn't possible. I hope you can understand my bad english :)
Thank you for you nice reply. In this case, Yuki was not the wrong person, he was instead like the ideal partner for Mafuyu, it would have been easier for me to accept the whole situation if it were otherwise. Plus, for a story that should be centered on the couple Uecchi-Mafuyu, Yuki is shown too much, with even maybe more intensity than with Uecchi. They kissed, had sex... talked about sex plan... This is troublesome and confusing. At first, I really liked the character Mafuyu, his auckward and timid side... Then after, it was a pain to discover that all of this cute side was just façade... 2 images when he's with that childhood friend perfectly show him as a grown person, who perfectly knew what he lived and does. Every person who sees him like a pure maiden rose is just naive. I completely felt cheated.
It's also disappointing to not see him doing the mourning for a longer périod, but instead being just dragged like that in a new relationship like some puppet. It's painful for the new lover. Plus Uecchi is completely adorable and so honest as person.
I don't think it's a façade. People change after experiencing something hurtful, even more if is the death of your lover of that time.
Yuki is shown too much because it was a really important person to Mafuyu, and it shows how Mafuyu is slowly letting him go. Also, having sex with someone doesn't make you not pure. One can be pure even after sex, in soul, in being a good person.
And falling in love with someone, after loving someone who have died is VERY possible, and happens all the time. This manga is really realistic, and that's why I love it so much :)
You are welcome, and I totally agree with you, I would preferred that this background never existed, or that the story was entirely about Mafuyu and Yuki, 'cause I feel uncomfortable because I really love Uecchi and I know that Mafuyu has already had his true love and as you said Uecchi deserves to be someone's true love. But I know that in real life happens to love someone else after your love's death, so yes it is very realistic but I don't like reality, that's it
As if it's been my Intention to begin with to change your opinion. Lol
Naive, naive .. I said that already.
What do you expect/wish? That Mafuyu suffer his whole life? Many more years? Doesn't go to school? Have no contact to others people? Start Smoking and drinking?
Let's change the situation. What is your opinion about a woman in her 20, divorced and finding a new love, two years younger with not much experience? Or a Widow in her 30s, - do both of them, in your opinion, don't deserve a new Chance in love and life BC they already experienced those feelings? Those Situation?
It's really romantic to believe in first love last forever or, back to the Manga, that, BC uecchi is still a Newbie in love, he deserve someone better BC he is, in your eyes, pure, but EVEN Mafuyu deserve a change in love and life. This guy just had the fucking guitar, no contact with old friends, he wasn't really present. He wasn't even able to Scream or to cry; your judgement is harsh.
Well .. It's just a tiny difference between being pure, an idiot or just naive.
But, there is one thing I do agree. It really feels like a short time after yukis death and finding someone knew, but on the others side, 365 days sure are long and humans life is short. There is no rule how long you wear black, you have to cry over a lost love .. The only thing you shouldn't forget is the Realisation you still are alive and have to move on. Being depressed over many years is unhealthy and you won't be able to come back alive alone.
But yeah, i'm Stiftung apart.
It wasn't my Intention to offend you. There are just some things I can't agree with but Thanks to that, we are able to talk over smth.^^
As if it's been my Intention to begin with to change your opinion. Lol
Naive, naive .. I said that already.
What do you expect/wish? That Mafuyu suffer his whole life? Many more years? Doesn't go to school? Have no contact to others people? Start Smoking and drinking?
Let's change the situation. What is your opinion about a woman in her 20, divorced and finding a new love, two years younger with not much experience? Or a Widow in her 30s, - do both of them, in your opinion, don't deserve a new Chance in love and life BC they already experienced those feelings? Those Situation?
It's really romantic to believe in first love last forever or, back to the Manga, that, BC uecchi is still a Newbie in love, he deserve someone better BC he is, in your eyes, pure, but EVEN Mafuyu deserve a change in love and life. This guy just had the fucking guitar, no contact with old friends, he wasn't really present. He wasn't even able to Scream or to cry; your judgement is harsh.
Well .. It's just a tiny difference between being pure, an idiot or just naive.
But, there is one thing I do agree. It really feels like a short time after yukis death and finding someone knew, but on the others side, 365 days sure are long and humans life is short. There is no rule how long you wear black, you have to cry over a lost love .. The only thing you shouldn't forget is the Realisation you still are alive and have to move on. Being depressed over many years is unhealthy and you won't be able to come back alive alone.
But yeah, i'm drifting apart.
It wasn't my Intention to offend you. There are just some things I can't agree with but Thanks to that, we are able to talk over smth.^^
That was a really nice comment :'>
So in the end, Mafuyu is with Yuki or Uecchi...? I had the sad sensation that at a moment it was more a yaoi centered on Mafuyu and his ex... Also disappointed and feel cheated that despite all his innocent looks and naïve behavior, Mafuyu hides such a past and sexual life behind him. Wasn't he supposed to be pure ? It's a nice lecture but those points disappoint me.