Y'all I'm really curious You see in so many manhwas that the uke is always like "stop" or ...

The Rakht February 8, 2024 10:08 pm

Y'all I'm really curious
You see in so many manhwas that the uke is always like "stop" or "wait" or "don't do that" or "i can't anymore" or "please no more" or stuff like that
And the seme deadass ignores everything
And it's not like the uke is hating it or anything (most of the time)

But is that supposed to be a turn-on? Am I delulu or what?
It happens so often
Like I say oh these two are so good and fluffy but it gets to the smut scenes and this shit happens again and ruins everything
I have only seen one manhwa where the seme actually stopped and started talking about this issue

Even if it's a kink thing, you should talk about it beforehand and then proceed
I just get really uncomfortable when this happens, so I wanted to know if anyone thinks the same

Responses
    The Rakht February 8, 2024 10:24 pm

    I mean I have topped and I have bottomed before
    And I'd get really uncomfortable if my partner was constantly saying that they want me to stop and they don't like what I'm doing (when they really don't want me to stop of course, if they do that's a different thing)
    I'd also get really pissed if I was the one complaining and my partner ignored me like that

    morinagasenpai February 10, 2024 3:47 pm

    what’s the name of the manga where the seme actually stops?

    The Rakht February 10, 2024 5:33 pm

    https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/the_devil_s_temptation/

    This one
    It's not actually my favourite but yeah he does that
    Though he really takes his time and does it in the later chapters
    But it's still progress(?) I guess
    The manhwa is not bad. It's pretty funny actually
    It's just that the uke looks like a little boy in some chapters

    The Rakht February 10, 2024 5:36 pm
    https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/the_devil_s_temptation/ This oneIt's not actually my favourite but yeah he does thatThough he really takes his time and does it in the later chaptersBut it's still progress(?) ... The Rakht

    Oh I just remembered
    Sorry for the double notification
    This manhwa has a weird pacing in the earlier chapters and near the end

    There is a period in between that everything is fine lol

    morinagasenpai February 10, 2024 8:07 pm
    Oh I just rememberedSorry for the double notificationThis manhwa has a weird pacing in the earlier chapters and near the endThere is a period in between that everything is fine lol The Rakht

    ohhh i read this one before and i really liked it in the middle but i found the ending kinda boring lol but i’ll look for the chapter you mentioned thank uuuu

    The Rakht February 11, 2024 12:59 am
    ohhh i read this one before and i really liked it in the middle but i found the ending kinda boring lol but i’ll look for the chapter you mentioned thank uuuu morinagasenpai

    Sure, glad I could help <3

    If I'm remembering correctly the top stopped in the middle of the sex and said "you always ask me to stop, I'm not a r*pist, you know"
    He played it off in a teasing tone but I was actually shocked that someone actually mentioned it so it stuck in my head

    Ichigo February 11, 2024 3:21 pm

    I blame the writers and whatever goes on in their head!! no one would enjoy feeling like they're raping someone, unless they are in fact a rapist and don't give a fck. Most of the time I find the smut chapters so unromantic and uncomfortable because of the uke's consent pleading to "stop", or "it hurts" etc. but then we're supposed to believe he's enjoying it?!?? and it's even worse when the seme is running his mouth the entire time too

    The Rakht February 11, 2024 4:14 pm
    I blame the writers and whatever goes on in their head!! no one would enjoy feeling like they're raping someone, unless they are in fact a rapist and don't give a fck. Most of the time I find the smut chapters ... Ichigo

    Yes I totally agree
    But I'm wondering
    I mean when so many authors create stuff like this, it might mean that there is a request for it, no?
    Like, where are all these people asking for this in the first place? I feel like the majority of the readers are actually enjoying this but they're keeping their mouths shut

    This isn't normal. Sex shouldn't be forceful. And you absolutely don't talk your partner into sex
    It's disrespectful. You should treat your partner's body with respect and gently unless they ask you otherwise
    But we see all these wannabe green flags going hardcore on a virgin, leaving bite marks all over their body, making them collapse etc...
    And it's supposed to be what? Romantic?