Bruh

I know some people from my friend she said that husband will say they're going to business trip and have sex with some women and comes back like nothing happened. Its really scary how they don't care about the wife and even the unborn child.

Yeah, I heard of men who act like this and even know some relatives who act this way. To them, women only serve as a tool for popping babies and nothing more. Some will even baby trap their girlfriends 'cause they're insecure as hell. Honestly, this is the reason why I don't fuck with guys in general. It's hard to tell which of them aren't rotten.

I never heard of baby trapping here . yes i know so many relatives who cheat so much i don't have respect to them at all. You know what my dad's elder brother tried to have relation with my mom seriously she said no so they never came over thankgod for that . I'm so done with my dad's relatives

I'm so sorry I talked too much there oh no

That is actually fucking scary. Props to your mom for standing her ground. The least you get to see weirdo relatives like that, the peaceful and safe your life will be.

As flor the baby trapping, it happened to a person I know in college. Seems like her bf was a jealous dude which pushed him to do the baby trapping. She dropped out just months before graduation.

Also, don't worry, I talk a lot about things I find interesting too.

Yes it's very scary situation even my dad's mom was in it too . They all are so weird. Yeah we are peaceful without the drama of them . Yeah my mom is very strong.
Is that person doing ok? I wish she completed her education

Unfortunately, we weren't really that close so I didn't know if she ever re-entered college. But like you, I hope she did finish her studies and free herself from the toxic relationship.

I hope she really leaves him and start anew . You know what even my friend she got married very young by her parents and within a year of their marriage she had a babygirl and that guy left them at her parents place because he thinks its not their own baby seriously idk why guys do this and my friend cannot leave that guy too its their culture reason she suck up to him she won't change , she has to look out for the child and from her parents home she is working as a staff nurse . I hope she leave him and take care of her baby

Man... That's so heartbreaking to hear. Was it forced marriage then? I've heard stories of that and it's so sad that many young girls and ladies end up in this type of scenarios and, worse, it's caused by their own family. That's just so fucked up. I hate how some parts of certain cultures led society to minimize women's value as merely baby poppers even though we are just as human and as deserving of body and life autonomy as everybody else.

I strongly pray that your friend will be able to sever her ties with her abusers and find a social support system where she and her baby will be truly loved, protected, and cared for. She is a such strong person for being able to push through all the harrowing experience her family and husband put her through.

We are same as anyone we are humans too but they think otherwise and not worthy of asking opinions of our own big life Changing decision. Actually she was abused by her mother alot she used to get beaten up that her whole family turned blind side . They don't deserve her not even her own husband. I Don't think she will leave him like ever her parents will abuse her even more if that happens. They already thinks she is badluck cause she has a girl baby and she is in their house after marriage too . If she decided to divorce then all hell will broke down . Actually its not forced marriage its arranged and he even got his gifts ( dowry) i dunno what he wants more from her . Ok I'm talking too much again bye take care

To my understanding, arranged marriage just means parents will find a potential date/partner for their adult child, but it is up to the adult child to make a decision whether or not they'll go through with it or not. An arranged marriage becomes forced when the parents pressure their children to be in union with the person they pick and have no final say on the matter. I think your friend's marriage was, unfortunately, a forced one but passed off as an "arranged marriage" to make it sound palatable and less inhumane for onlookers.

Also, never say never. As long as your friend is alive and breathing, there will always be a chance for her and her child to be free from her abusers (may they burn in hell for the things they've done btw). Don't let her lose hope.

I think I have blabbered enough too. Anyway, I hope you and your friend will keep safe. It's a dangerous and tough world out there for, us, ladies.