When you have a partner, you should try your best to create boundaries, if you’re single do whatever idc, I don’t really set boundaries and just laugh things off and ignore it while I cry mentally lmaoo.
Minato has his good reasons, it stems from his trauma and he doesn’t want to think like that. He always tries to pretend to be fine and Shizuma tells him to tell him etc.
The one I really dislike is the boss, stay professional. Don’t involve yourself in your worker’s personal life.
Yes, but sometimes you don’t even notice you have to set boundaries until someone else tells you, minato isn’t being very communicative so far and is only lashing out (understandably) by ignoring him/ pouncing him.
For me it’s not just one of their faults.
That! I hate that the boss is getting involved and that people are blaming shizuma for the boundaries thing when it should be common decency to not involve yourself with others the way the boss has been doing…. (And it seems like he knows minato and shizuma are a thing so it makes it worse..)
I don’t think your partner should have to tell you to set boundaries. It’s something everyone should do for their own sake and common sense.
I don’t know when I’m gonna like the boss. He’s pissing me off.
Some people DONT know how to set boundaries…. People saying they’re too “grown” to be acting like this??? Age doesn’t mean you suddenly know how to deal with shii!!
I’ve been reading so much minuto and shizuma slander for no actual good reason! Their misunderstandings is honestly quite understandable. Shizuma needs to set boundaries but sometimes it’s hard for people (me included! I’m an adult with little to no boundaries and therefore sometimes I find myself in situations like shizuma where I tend to laugh things off/. Not think too much of and it’s hard bc people are like “you need to set boundaries” ITS FKN HARD!)
And no you shouldn’t make others deal with your trauma but shizuma loves minuto enough to deal with it.