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Hmmm maybe humble isn't the word but he needs the development? He needs the anchor dropped? It's not going to be any less harsh but I'm trying to say that he feels driven to ignore himself with the excuse that it's his grandma that he is doing this for. If she goes, the next question is "What now?" Plus, a life worth celebrating is one well lived. She's done her bid to look after two generations!
Ya'll ,need to let grandma go. He needs that loss to humble him so that he can leave Jae too. Like his grandma is the sole thing keeping him stuck.