Ppl writing think pieces abt noncon smut..cmon neow

Moniliv February 29, 2024 10:42 pm

Authors trying to write deep narratives abt “justification” is annoying but I don’t think this is that at all. He just likes rough evil sex and this solely driven by that cuz it’s a smut. Like yall are seriously getting bent out of shape over fantasy porn…also ppl making comments abt the author’s sex life is so weird cuz girl what? Having crazy kinks in smut doesn’t mean u wanna abuse and assault ppl ( ̄∇ ̄") the plot is basically nonexistent tho

Responses
    Oatmeal February 29, 2024 11:39 pm

    THANK YOU! People need to stop kink shaming; because as much as I enjoy rape porn or whatever, I'm a meek, introverted 9-5-er who would admit defeat when a server gets my order wrong. It's just porn y'all, stop thinking too hard!

    Kittykat March 1, 2024 1:58 am

    have u considered that writing media that frames rape as not being rape actually perpetuates rape culture?? so many ppl with BL brainrot cannot even properly identify when something is rape unless the victim is screaming

    Kittykat March 1, 2024 1:59 am
    THANK YOU! People need to stop kink shaming; because as much as I enjoy rape porn or whatever, I'm a meek, introverted 9-5-er who would admit defeat when a server gets my order wrong. It's just porn y'all, stop... Oatmeal

    its not kink if the characters arent consenting to CNC or whatever. you realize rape porn directly perpetuates rape culture right... thats not okay. just cuz YOU cant think hard doesnt mean it doesnt have a real world effect. read stuff about CNC where theres actual consent

    Ichigo March 1, 2024 3:06 am
    have u considered that writing media that frames rape as not being rape actually perpetuates rape culture?? so many ppl with BL brainrot cannot even properly identify when something is rape unless the victim is... Kittykat

    this!!!

    Kittykat March 1, 2024 4:06 am
    this!!! Ichigo

    ive seen u before thank u pookie. gross of people to bring up "kinkshaming" when no one is saying you cant do or consume CNC content but literal rape content is not a kink, its just showing straight up rape

    Moniliv March 1, 2024 4:37 am
    have u considered that writing media that frames rape as not being rape actually perpetuates rape culture?? so many ppl with BL brainrot cannot even properly identify when something is rape unless the victim is... Kittykat

    That is a problem with people who conflate fantasy with reality, and when the entire point of this porn is to be porn, and not something more, basing moral off it is an issue w literacy, u can critique things all you you want but the reality is that these do not wxist 1 to 1 ESPECIALLY when it comes w warnings, although I will say this doesn’t and 100% should

    Moniliv March 1, 2024 4:40 am
    ive seen u before thank u pookie. gross of people to bring up "kinkshaming" when no one is saying you cant do or consume CNC content but literal rape content is not a kink, its just showing straight up rape Kittykat

    This is drawing on a tablet, they exist outside of our reality, they do not and are not trying to resemble real scenarios, this is a horrible comparison. YOU are the only person consenting, because u are the only person involved in reading, so by ur logic it is Cnc no matter what

    Moniliv March 1, 2024 4:45 am
    its not kink if the characters arent consenting to CNC or whatever. you realize rape porn directly perpetuates rape culture right... thats not okay. just cuz YOU cant think hard doesnt mean it doesnt have a rea... Kittykat

    Rape culture exists far beyond the reach of yaoi, it is an institutionalized issue. This is not a porn industry in the sense that real women(using this because this is who is affected in reality) are being exploited and portrayed in inhumane ways. If you really wanna deal w the issues rape culture has on porn look at the rape tag on pornhub. Sex culture is much more complex than just “this thing bad make other thing worse” ESPECIALLY in queer spaces.

    Moniliv March 1, 2024 4:53 am
    its not kink if the characters arent consenting to CNC or whatever. you realize rape porn directly perpetuates rape culture right... thats not okay. just cuz YOU cant think hard doesnt mean it doesnt have a rea... Kittykat

    A group of niche individuals writing yaoi noncon do not have the ability to perpetuate rape culture because any rape ideologies that exists in a potential reader were already instilled through their sexist society. Fiction is not reality and this viewpoint is incredibly conservative of sex culture and once again shows a lack of media literacy and self criticism. Restricting non exploitative art under the guise that other people can potentially read it wrong and base their morale after it is blatant censorship.

    Moniliv March 1, 2024 5:12 am
    A group of niche individuals writing yaoi noncon do not have the ability to perpetuate rape culture because any rape ideologies that exists in a potential reader were already instilled through their sexist soci... Moniliv

    it is also important to note that the author isn’t trying to conflate their rape kink with the effects of rape. there is this idea of good rape vs bad rape within our society, and I do think it’s is potentially dangerous for authors to try to argue this rape is good while also condemning other “bad” rape they portray, because that in itself is breaking the boundary of “this is just my fantasy” and instead is turning into a weird off moral lesson, which bleeds the lines of fiction and reality for any impressionable readers, even then it is much more nuanced than it simply and absolutely perpetuating rape ideologies

    ari March 1, 2024 1:00 pm
    That is a problem with people who conflate fantasy with reality, and when the entire point of this porn is to be porn, and not something more, basing moral off it is an issue w literacy, u can critique things ... Moniliv

    THISSS you are so right thank you!it's honestly scary how people cannot seem to separate fiction and reality these days like this is FANTASY not real life!! confusing the two is so dangerous, thank u for calling this out fr

    sketchek38 March 1, 2024 2:45 pm
    THISSS you are so right thank you!it's honestly scary how people cannot seem to separate fiction and reality these days like this is FANTASY not real life!! confusing the two is so dangerous, thank u for call... ari

    Thank. You. tired of people who still camping under this or any other stories trying to backseat porn. Reading them on this ill*gal site already discredits yourself. If you’re not comfortable search something that’s sfw, green flag or whichever yall prefer. This is not tiktok, they don’t feed you go curate it yourself

    ari March 1, 2024 3:02 pm
    Thank. You. tired of people who still camping under this or any other stories trying to backseat porn. Reading them on this ill*gal site already discredits yourself. If you’re not comfortable search something... sketchek38

    yess omg fr!! why r they acting like they're on a moral high ground when we're all on this site together LMFAO. ppl are so mf sensitive like gah damn if u dont like it, just move on. yeah they're allowed to share their opinion ofc but when they're constantly hurling insults at ppl for consuming/writing things that is "immoral" in their eyes?? not cute at all. they rlly gotta stop whining abt these things unless it's actually harmful to real ppl (which, 99.99% of the time, it's not lol).

    Kittykat March 1, 2024 9:19 pm
    yess omg fr!! why r they acting like they're on a moral high ground when we're all on this site together LMFAO. ppl are so mf sensitive like gah damn if u dont like it, just move on. yeah they're allowed to sha... ari

    the "if you dont like it, move on" idea is BULLSHIT. we have the right to criticize harmful content. I grew up reading BL and actually have experienced real life trauma because I didnt fully understand what enthusiastic consent was, BECAUSE OF BL. stuff that makes rape casual and frames rape not as rape or as enjoyable DIRECTLY perpetuates rape culture ideas in society. I see all the time people on here not even being able to properly identify when something is rape, and its SCARY!
    human beings are more susceptible to ideas than you think, especially if you are consistently being exposed to content. so get some critical thinking and think about how media affects society

    Kittykat March 1, 2024 9:20 pm
    Thank. You. tired of people who still camping under this or any other stories trying to backseat porn. Reading them on this ill*gal site already discredits yourself. If you’re not comfortable search something... sketchek38

    it really doesnt discredit anyone. people are allowed to share on here for a reason. its clear you have no real argument against how that content is harmful, because it is. theres a reason why shit like that isnt allowed on TV anymore, and on the rare occasion it is, its highly criticized.

    Kittykat March 1, 2024 9:21 pm
    THISSS you are so right thank you!it's honestly scary how people cannot seem to separate fiction and reality these days like this is FANTASY not real life!! confusing the two is so dangerous, thank u for call... ari

    its scary that you cannot see how fiction can easily perpetuate rape culture. that is a serious issue with media. research rape culture

    Kittykat March 1, 2024 9:23 pm
    This is drawing on a tablet, they exist outside of our reality, they do not and are not trying to resemble real scenarios, this is a horrible comparison. YOU are the only person consenting, because u are the on... Moniliv

    im going to repeat what i already said to someone else:
    we have the right to criticize harmful content, because it absolutely is harmful. I grew up reading BL and actually have experienced real life trauma because I didnt fully understand what enthusiastic consent was and that it is needed, BECAUSE OF BL. stuff that makes rape casual and frames rape not as rape or as enjoyable DIRECTLY perpetuates rape culture ideas in society. I see all the time people on here not even being able to properly identify when something is rape, and its SCARY!

    human beings are more susceptible to ideas than you think, especially if you are consistently being exposed to content. we already live in a rape culture so it is easy to build off of that foundation. so get some critical thinking and think about how media affects society because it absolutely does. to defend fucking rape porn is SICKENING

    Moniliv March 1, 2024 10:36 pm
    the "if you dont like it, move on" idea is BULLSHIT. we have the right to criticize harmful content. I grew up reading BL and actually have experienced real life trauma because I didnt fully understand what ent... Kittykat

    I’m sorry this happened to you but I will also reiterate that that is an issue with sex education and socialization, I have also been reading yaoi for over a decade, when I was far too young, but I was extensively taught sex education by my family and it has left me unaffected sexually BECAUSE I was taught what’s wrong and harmful in reality. Your relationship with bl has nothing to do with the bl itself, but with the systems and rape ignorant institutions we operate within as a society. I highly encourage you to take sex education classes when u get to college or read sex theology beyond your own interpretation. Fiction CAN affect reality only if you let it affect your reality, media literacy means you have to think further than what is being explicitly portrayed and make your own judgement of how you will internalize this information. Spoon fed ideas through media is the death of intellectual integrity and it’s sad to see you view the world as a monolith because you were failed. If you really wanna discuss rape culture you need to understand the fundamentals of why and how it exists, which has everything to do with systemic heterosexism, not niche porn. Also the issue w mass media and rape is only an issue because mass media is an exploitative means of capitalism. They are massively profiting off of everyone’s money while holding no integrity for the victims that operate within their own systems. Think of the rape culture within film industry and directorial power. That is the advertising and commodifying of victims, which is something self owned niche yaoi artists cannot perform. Mass media=/= independent artistry

    Moniliv March 1, 2024 10:40 pm
    im going to repeat what i already said to someone else:we have the right to criticize harmful content, because it absolutely is harmful. I grew up reading BL and actually have experienced real life trauma becau... Kittykat

    All you’re saying is you agree that media literacy is and has always been dead. Why? Because of sexist and conservative socialization. Address the real issue not the ”mob x cloud strife tentacle porn” backwash.

    Moniliv March 1, 2024 10:46 pm
    its scary that you cannot see how fiction can easily perpetuate rape culture. that is a serious issue with media. research rape culture Kittykat

    You should research rape culture along with them instead of spewing uninformed anti-sex conservative terf rhetoric in the comments of an anime pirating site you only use for yaoi.