Wait why are people blaming Bianca? I'm so confused 😓

Khalid Deorum Athanatos Vold March 12, 2024 7:48 pm

Wait why are people blaming Bianca? I'm so confused

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    Voey2 March 12, 2024 10:31 pm

    People are blaming Bianca for not telling or confronting Yvonnie's sister as a victim of dv, when in the right so is to not do it unless given permission because of how uncomfortable the victim would have felt if words were spreaded. People that are ashamed of Bianca's actions are just not thinking about the victim's POV but rather what they would have done

    Meandme March 18, 2024 8:30 pm
    People are blaming Bianca for not telling or confronting Yvonnie's sister as a victim of dv, when in the right so is to not do it unless given permission because of how uncomfortable the victim would have felt ... Voey2

    They are blaming her mainly because even tho she knew about it, she never addresses the situation. She knew it for years, but only came to intervene now, when she needed a nany. If she had suspicions, there were many ways she could have helped a victim, taking her away from the perpetuator being one, but she did neither. She just ignored the situation as a whole. She neither tried to verify Lucy's situation, nor offer help.
    She did absolutely nothing.

    Meandme March 18, 2024 8:32 pm
    People are blaming Bianca for not telling or confronting Yvonnie's sister as a victim of dv, when in the right so is to not do it unless given permission because of how uncomfortable the victim would have felt ... Voey2

    Also, about the word being spread, everyone in town already knew, they were just ignoring the girl situation. Her situation couldn't have been worse than it was. Bianca fucked up and that's it.