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I think it isn't just Korea, but the most stories about sane sex relationships, especially for gay men where stories are mostly written by straight people, mostly women who satisfy the fetishes and fantasies of straight and bisexual people fetishizes homosexuals.
In the Yaoi's world, it's mostly consumed by straight women, and rape is such a popular trope that it had become normalized
*same sex relationships
Tbh I don't know if rape culture is very normalize in Korea or they honestly believe mlm is filled with barbaric men who rape their partners to show affection..anyway I pray Korea bl authors are free from the shackles of non conseual sex