when a take is pretty… out there, doesn’t it make sense to leave your think piece and carry on. and even then our opinion was criticizing how a victim doesn’t need an apology from a bully because of the harm they caused. we were providing insight that an apology isn’t the best form of closure. your take has some value but you missed the mark by including us in that “worst types of ppl into its audience” when this is literally just a disagreement about closure?? have you seen the jinx comment section lmao
Get this inside your head ok? I'm not mad (more like annoyed) bcos you disagree w me. I'm annoyed bcos youre out here pushing your views on someone that OBVIOUS do not care. Youre endlessly preaching at me that you like oranges but bro, like I said, I prefer apples. MOVE. TF. ON. I care less if you agree or disagree w me ffs... have some common sense at least.
You can have your own damn opinion somewhere down the comment section and I'll EASILY ignore it. But isn't it comical that you and the rest of you all do not have the same decency but preach how >I< give too much sht? Can't you see how hypocritical you are sounding rn?
It all makes sense now. They want to shove their opinions on other readers.
I'm not having it tho. I have my own opinion and I'm not changing it just bcos theyre screeching at me.
It doesn't matter if I posted my comment regarding the same topic the day a new chapter is posted or in the far future. I'll still say the same damn thing and have the same damn opinion.
Aren't you finding it crazy that youre (you all are) being TOO controlling of someone else's opinion AND of someone else's timing of posting the said opinion?
“preaching at me” bro i commented twice about your opinion because you responded to me?? it’s pretty comical that you’re getting this worked up when you could’ve just ignored it too or replied with “that’s how i feel, not trying to have my opinion changed” from the start. it’s fine to do that and i would’ve moved on! the lack of critical thinking and common sense from you is so confusing because you weren’t even willing to have a conversation about it yet posted this publicly… the lack of community you have is so jarring lmao!! god forbid someone criticize you or at least try to hear you out on a public forum. you don’t owe anyone anything but isn’t it logical that people will comment on something they agree or disagree with, or is that too difficult for you to realize? oh brother the hypocrite calling others hypocrites, when i didn’t do or say the things you’re calling me a hypocrite over .
I only said the truth. You lack reading comprehension and replied to my comment w utter nonsense. With such gibberish reply like yours being praised, do you expect anyone to give a serious response? bffr
But now that youre here. Aren't you gonna respond to my reply to you lol have some balls come on. We both know you made such stinky first reply to me but still, you can man up and acknowledge the elephant in the room at least
i was literally not even talking to you in this response, what are you doing?? if you used some common sense, you would’ve seen i was replying to someone else, i have no words
you can have this opinion no one is saying you can’t. they’re just giving you more information or insight in case you missed it calm down bro. you’re not getting hung at stake, why are you acting like people disagreeing with you is somehow controlling your opinion or timing (?)... i told you to expect replies because everyone comments the day of uploading not a crazy concept right? kinda hilarious that you’re getting upset over nothing from my last reply and somehow think you’re getting pushed around. clearly felt the pressure from a normal thing called a conversation
That comment is not for you. Mind your own business, the context of the said conversation matters here. Mind your own topic.
wow so we did the same thing this is so funny
someone is big mad here, im not pointing fingers but sheesh you would’ve thought we killed your dog by these responses
No. I double checked it just now and you indeed replied to me both times. Go check it man.
my bad (not hard to do surprisingly). i got confused because me and another user type the same. but the point still stands
Cool. I'm only replying to the ones that tagged me anyway.
Your point wont stand firm anymore as the line is gonna be blurred w the mistake of the recipient. Aint gonna read them fyi. If, in case, you want to make another point go and read my replies TO YOU. Preferably, carefully this time.
you already did read them but ok! but it still applies because you essentially reiterate the same thing over and over again, just meaner depending on who it is lmao. should i copy paste to make you feel better?
(I think youre confused once again, I meant to say I honestly decided to not read your last 2 comments. I did read your first 3 comments before that tho.)
Also, that I kinda agree. I based my attitude on the way you all approach me. Most of you want to feed me your views and you treat those w opposite opinions as if theyre >objectively< 'wrong' (your own word).
Saying smth like, "was to give you insight, (so not really a waste of time since you read it) but have a hard time backing down after being told you were wrong"... Ugh. We are all here having our own >subjective< wants and dislikes. I want a closure, you dont want it. Simple as that. How tf is someone right or wrong for that? Bcos closure is unrealistic? Ffs. Righttttt, that part as well. I felt personally attacked when I first read you all say that. It's cliche? I beg you all to not say that to anyone irl. If I were told the same thing back then I aint gonna make it lol Closure is def not unrealistic I know that myself (take that as you will)
You all can't just paint me like I was wrong for wanting smth I know well that might help (closure) and expect me to... Not react.
If only you all just given me a vibe that youre here to agree to disagree then, I'll be willing to do so. But no. Whats w this way of disregarding closure? Saying theyre wrong for wanting closure? Fr? Is the concept of individuals having different ways to cope to trauma such a foreign thing now?
no i wont respond cause unlike u idgaf i don't bother arguing with someone so stupid like u bye
Oh you pulled the fake idgaf attitude, huh.
For someone that is saying they dgaf you lack the resistance to actually not give a fck and to not reply both times to me lol
Got the time to try and call someone cringe but sure, you won't bother to argue sure lol thats why I called you a clown the first time hun the way you don't have the brain capacity to comprehend others and your own thoughts before you comment is so comical.
i luckily won’t have to say this irl because real adults and other bully victims wouldn’t have this take so idk? and one last time closure doesn’t always involve an apology and that was the main point i was trying to make. YOU can want one but it’s not the only way and if you reread your original paragraph/some other responses, you’ll see that you implied closure was only given if minwoo appears in skylar’s life and apologizes. i tried to factor in skylars current trauma responses to how he wouldn’t be able to mentally handle a reunion with his bully… the last part about me criticizing with your take on the story half heartedly showing trauma was truly an agree to disagree take explaining that the progression of the story made sense imo
also sorry for saying rude things when you didnt address me, i thought u we’re coming for me and reciprocated it that’s all. it’s kind of insane what a 5 hour nap does for a person after not sleeping all night. i genuinely don’t know who that was
but ok here me out one last time on this, if someone takes part in your sexual assault isn’t that alone valid enough to never want to be in their presence or believe an apology isn’t necessary? which i why im a little confused on your strong stance on closure = a face to face discussion about an apology. im not asking for an explanation (in case you dismiss me), but im pretty much offering understanding on my end about why i strongly disagreed with you
skylar did transfer schools and move because of the incident and is currently in therapy (?) :/ so i don’t think disagreeing with u is the wild or forceful take you’re making it out to be besides clapping back to the rude insults that come with it
womp womp
Is the author fr when they said Minwoo won't be reappearing again? He played his role? He belonged in the past?
Fck. What about closure? They used him for Skylar's trauma plot so now it's ok to discard him? Writers that use trauma as a plot device but do it half heartedly is so triggering to me ugh so annoying