Idk how it is SOUTH KOREA or in USA and other places.. But I can't.. I can never accept a ...

Ahusha March 30, 2024 5:28 pm

Idk how it is SOUTH KOREA or in USA and other places..
But I can't.. I can never accept a person that is going to be my life partner to have flings aka fxxk bodies laying around all his life
I'm sorry if I sound childish or pretentious or orthodox.
Please I pray that you guys don't start a gender war here...

Responses
    Amusant March 31, 2024 1:21 am

    I’m sorry, but where did he say he has fuck buddies ecc?

    Ahusha March 31, 2024 2:19 pm
    I’m sorry, but where did he say he has fuck buddies ecc? Amusant

    Didn't he mention clearly that he has "a past" with "flings"?
    And I just don't care if he has..
    I just blurted out my feelings(⌒▽⌒)

    Amusant March 31, 2024 2:59 pm
    Didn't he mention clearly that he has "a past" with "flings"?And I just don't care if he has..I just blurted out my feelings(⌒▽⌒) Ahusha

    Yes but he clearly said that he’s not seeing any of these flings anymore (and he won’t in the future anyway since he has a crush on her and we know the cliché)
    So I asked this question because I didn’t understand where you came from, I’m sorry

    Amusant March 31, 2024 2:59 pm
    Yes but he clearly said that he’s not seeing any of these flings anymore (and he won’t in the future anyway since he has a crush on her and we know the cliché)So I asked this question because I didn’t un... Amusant

    ┗( T﹏T )┛

    chocobuun April 1, 2024 1:50 am

    Can I ask what the difference is between someone having previous flings vs previous exes? It’s pretty much the same except with exes they have actual feelings, likely slept with them multiple times vs flings which has no feelings and likely slept with them only once. I’d rather he have flings that he didn’t care about and will never care about over women he loved or can’t get over.

    Ahusha April 1, 2024 12:47 pm
    Can I ask what the difference is between someone having previous flings vs previous exes? It’s pretty much the same except with exes they have actual feelings, likely slept with them multiple times vs flings ... chocobuun

    Who knows men or women alike grows feelings for their partners aur of nowhere, feelings are not some weapons that triggers only when somebody says *shoot* right? They're spontaneous ..
    Thus I fear

    Amusant April 1, 2024 2:19 pm
    Who knows men or women alike grows feelings for their partners aur of nowhere, feelings are not some weapons that triggers only when somebody says *shoot* right? They're spontaneous ..Thus I fear Ahusha

    But why are you so concerned about others’ feelings when you should be caring only of those of your partner? Also, everyone has a past, whether you like it or not. You too have one as well, even if you may have never dated.
    To make you understand, for instance, there’s a fair possibility that your partner has had a fling that meant nothing to him, or even a deeper relationship that changed him, but that now means nothing as well. If you love someone you do it despite of his past, however difficult it is. Otherwise, it’s simply not love but something superficial and toxic.
    Thus it’s on the present and the future that you should focus, and not on something that has already happened, since you can’t change it. Also, it’s almost impossible to find some puppet that has never had any experience at all. You can find it anyway, of course, but that’d be pointless if you can’t live up to the moment and enjoy your time with this person because of your fears