me when im manipulated and raped and people call me a spineless bitch for being forced and...

jo ^^ April 7, 2024 1:38 am

me when im manipulated and raped and people call me a spineless bitch for being forced and manipulated into sex

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    Myholeisfree April 7, 2024 10:27 pm
    What the thought you were done and said goodbye??? Are you back for some more or something?? Shit even I'm more then old enough to know that what I said was pretty sexist but SOMEBODY doesn't know how to let go... Myholeisfree

    You know what the embarrassment comment was a little too far I take that one back but not the rest lol anyway I wait for your response

    jo ^^ April 7, 2024 10:44 pm
    What the thought you were done and said goodbye??? Are you back for some more or something?? Shit even I'm more then old enough to know that what I said was pretty sexist but SOMEBODY doesn't know how to let go... Myholeisfree

    i said goodbye as an expression not actually goodbye lmao… and im a man ^^ what you said was not only “sexist”, you were discrediting adult male rape victims. if someone said something racist, would you just “let it go”? and you seriously said you think everyone agrees with what you said? who do you think you are…

    Myholeisfree April 7, 2024 10:54 pm
    i said goodbye as an expression not actually goodbye lmao… and im a man ^^ what you said was not only “sexist”, you were discrediting adult male rape victims. if someone said something racist, would you j... jo ^^

    I think I'm someone who enjoys arguments lol and I'm sorry for misgendering(it's always a male why can't it be a women for once) but sorry to say but you sound like a little bitch lol and your literally the only comment I found that thinks the uke a victim that's why I said that embarrassment comment oh and sorry about that embarrassment comment I thought I already apologized for that comment but when I saw your response I saw that managago didn't post it and yea I would be able to let it go cause I'm an adult not a little bitch I grew up long time ago lol(arguments are the only immature thing I enjoy lol)I don't sit/lay down on my phone all day crying about a mean comment lol

    Myholeisfree April 7, 2024 10:54 pm
    I think I'm someone who enjoys arguments lol and I'm sorry for misgendering(it's always a male why can't it be a women for once) but sorry to say but you sound like a little bitch lol and your literally the onl... Myholeisfree

    Waiting for your response (=・ω・=)

    Hopeless_shipper April 8, 2024 12:46 am
    What the thought you were done and said goodbye??? Are you back for some more or something?? Shit even I'm more then old enough to know that what I said was pretty sexist but SOMEBODY doesn't know how to let go... Myholeisfree

    You're doing too much man

    Hopeless_shipper April 8, 2024 12:48 am

    I would genuinely be interested in discussing things with you in a diplomatic manner, because if I'm wrong then I'd like to learn from it. Could you reply to my previous comment?

    If not then that's that

    jo ^^ April 8, 2024 3:22 am
    I Skip sex scenes, but I read the start. He let the male lead persuade him, and didn't draw clear boundaries even from the start. I see my younger self in him, and I absolutely dislike it. If you're not putting... Hopeless_shipper

    first chapter its stated that the reason why mc is having trouble as an esper is because hes had problems successfully matching with a guide. due to this hes struggling to complete his missions or whatever. then after a long time he is finally able to match with a guide, then multiple times later in the story it is made clear when the mc tries to switch his guide that it will take inevitably a long time. later in the story the ml keeps sexually harassing the mc, leading to the mc firmly telling (yelling) at the ml to stop.

    jo ^^ April 8, 2024 3:24 am
    first chapter its stated that the reason why mc is having trouble as an esper is because hes had problems successfully matching with a guide. due to this hes struggling to complete his missions or whatever. the... jo ^^

    (accidentally clicked post) however this leads to the ml to completely stop giving the mc guiding, KNOWING that the mc needs guiding or will like die or combust or something. therefore manipulating him again to listen to him and force him into situations he doesnt like.

    jo ^^ April 8, 2024 3:31 am
    (accidentally clicked post) however this leads to the ml to completely stop giving the mc guiding, KNOWING that the mc needs guiding or will like die or combust or something. therefore manipulating him again to... jo ^^

    just dont understand why you guys are so insistent on blaming victims. even if victims could have done something about their sexual harassment in the end shouldnt we be focusing on the perpetrator? there are lots of cases irl where victims could have reported their rapists, could have overpowered them or did something to stop but simply werent in the right mental state to or just didnt. but you cant and shouldnt be blaming them for being raped. like i was in an abusive relationship but felt trapped and didnt leave for a long time. that doesnt make me a spineless bitch.

    jo ^^ April 8, 2024 4:07 am
    I Skip sex scenes, but I read the start. He let the male lead persuade him, and didn't draw clear boundaries even from the start. I see my younger self in him, and I absolutely dislike it. If you're not putting... Hopeless_shipper

    oh i didnt see your second or third paragraph the formatting was wonky on my device. i do agree with the portrayal of people enjoying rape in stories being redundant and stupid. also feel free to ignore my thing about irl in my most recent response

    Hopeless_shipper April 8, 2024 10:47 am
    first chapter its stated that the reason why mc is having trouble as an esper is because hes had problems successfully matching with a guide. due to this hes struggling to complete his missions or whatever. the... jo ^^

    I get it, but I just feel like it was all played off as a joke. Mc jas genuine trauma by the male lead, who isolated him and then goes on to sexually harass him in the present. He has perfect moral and legal grounds to go to HR or anyone and complain so that his case is looked through carefully, and is assigned another guide, even if it's one with less compatibility.

    Hopeless_shipper April 8, 2024 10:52 am
    (accidentally clicked post) however this leads to the ml to completely stop giving the mc guiding, KNOWING that the mc needs guiding or will like die or combust or something. therefore manipulating him again to... jo ^^

    I'll have to revisit that scene when I'm not in public lol. But doesn't he have other alternatives? Like finding another guide who I assume the company would prioritize due to his status as an s class and his position as a victim. Otherwise they'd be looking at a lawsuit, personally.

    And if all else fails, there are still other methods like medicine and whatnot. He's been using those methods so far.


    I agree with the second part tho. Getting release only to get it taken away is an ass move. And so it's harder to move on from that. It still frustrates me he's going along with the male leads plan though. It still feels imo like something the author wrote to have them fuck while the mc avoids moral accountability tho. That and their love for non consent

    Hopeless_shipper April 8, 2024 11:00 am
    just dont understand why you guys are so insistent on blaming victims. even if victims could have done something about their sexual harassment in the end shouldnt we be focusing on the perpetrator? there are lo... jo ^^

    No ofc not. You were a victim, and idk your circumstances but it probably took a lot of bravery to walk out. And I'd never use the words spineless bitch on someone for being assaulted.

    When you're in an abusive relationship, you're legally classified as being in a perpetual state of danger. That means your brain isn't thinking straight because it's thinking of it's safety first and foremost. Everything else is secondary to survival. Theoretically almost nothing you do in response would be imputable then. At least in my country. You could literally kill your abuser and it would be self defense.


    I myself always freeze up in these situations, and my logic only kicks back once I'm removed from it.


    I was moreso talking about the start. When the male lead had no hold over him, and was just a coworker.

    Hopeless_shipper April 8, 2024 11:15 am
    oh i didnt see your second or third paragraph the formatting was wonky on my device. i do agree with the portrayal of people enjoying rape in stories being redundant and stupid. also feel free to ignore my thin... jo ^^

    Oh lol yeah my phone glitches all the time too.

    Nah I get it it's something you strongly believe in, so seeing someone condoning such an atrocious act is a giant no.

    I hate victim blaming so I'm sorry it came off as that. Ofc the giant bitch in this situation is the male lead. He the one who deserves to have his spine ripped out.

    If this was another story I might have interpreted this differently. But seeing as this is in another random brainless bl with sa and zero accountability I don't see him as much as a victim as just another brand of character bl authors love to make and have be the bottom in all their stories so that they can project their grape fetish onto. No brain and no agency.

    And I'm just tired of that. I basically stopped reading Shoujo cause most girls were doormats, but some bl really is just the same with better art.

    Myholeisfree April 9, 2024 12:20 am

    Damn yall what happened also sorry for the late ass reply my shifty ass boss calls me on MY DAY OFF so I had to come in but bro I didn't know yall were arguing behind my back lol but just so yall know I'm not reading all that

    Myholeisfree April 9, 2024 12:20 am
    Damn yall what happened also sorry for the late ass reply my shifty ass boss calls me on MY DAY OFF so I had to come in but bro I didn't know yall were arguing behind my back lol but just so yall know I'm not r... Myholeisfree

    Shitty*

    Myholeisfree April 9, 2024 12:26 am

    But wait a minute does this mean I'm out if the argument or am I still free to join???I'm confused is this beef between yall now??