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it has cheating so be careful

Dang it. I had a feeling. I hate cheating , maybe this isn’t my cup of tea

I mean i think it's worth reading actually

There isn't like actual cheating it's a lot more nuanced.
The story is toxic don't get me wrong, but there's also some very fluffy cute elements.

It’s still cheating regardless when he chose to continue to hide it and prioritized his own fear of being found out. He wasn’t brainwashed to go over to Minho’s house, so he made it a choice to cheat. But the reason why he’s like that is there, he’s like this because of his trauma and relationship trauma specifically, causing distrust etc anxiety. So while I don’t blame him for that, I blame him still for cheating. He knew what he was doing was wrong, especially when HIS EX Minho also did the same.

Minho is the trash of all here, Woojin is just a bad partner because of his mental health but he is redeemable. Taehwan deserves a better partner who he won’t have to handle the burden of mental health. In conclusion, only Woojin and taehwan deserves happiness. As for Minho, he can die for all I care lmaoo

I never said he didn'( cheat though. I just don't think it's not worth reading because someone cheats in that sense. Cheating in another context is way worse though. and even still I don't think it's the worst worst worst somebody can do

No I’m saying it to your “I don’t think it’s actual cheating”.

Cheating in either form is still bad. I think you mean cheating because you want to, while I don’t think Uke wanted to, he still did it so it’s as bad. He knew it was wrong and still hid it.

It’s not an evil thing to do but it’s a bad partner.

yeah, but the person hadn't read the story so I just don't want him to nog give it a chance just because he thinks there's like evil cheating in there, cause there's not you know

LIke you said it's still cheating but it's a very heavy word. So I don't want that word to scare anyone away from reading this
thats all

Ohh okay my bad, lol I get you

is okayyyyyyyy lol

Well I mean they already did state they hated cheating so I doubt they’ll change their mind just cause the character feels bad about it lol. The way it was thrown in there feels like the author ruined the entire story for the sake of drama or to satisfy some weird sexual fantasy

Let’s be real, the way author showed a bunch of those cheating scenes, I am sure the author is into something like that. Many have cheating kinks, yup.

I always question what goes on inside of their heads
;-;

As an artist I can’t bring myself to draw a full-on explicit and detailed smut scene of cheating, I’d feel like crap. I’ve seen that crap so many times in stories where authors do way too much and put them in all diff positions in diff locations of characters cheating, I felt like throwing up.

OOF and there’s this one manga where the mc (top) cheated on the bottom and was literally having sex with the mistress right in front of his face, the mistress was enjoying it and the top was still turned on by it while the bottom was just traumatized. Funny that the top and bottom still ended up together after the scum top did that crap

WHAT??? What manga is that? I‘ve read stories where top cheats but not right in front of bottom. Wtfff
And the MC is the top? That’s uncommon haha….

I see that the bottom has little to no self respect as usual. ^^
That’s why I prefer bottoms like the one in An Idiot Like You danmei novel/manhua.

I forgot the name of it since I dropped it and couldn’t stomach reading it anymore. But I guess it’s a good thing to spare you the trauma. If you’ve ever read sadistic beauty, the scene is like when the FL and the younger guy were doing it standing (younger guy hitting it from the back) as the exbf was sitting on the ground right in front of them with his back against the wall. So if you know the scene, you’ll know their genitals are literally in front of the guy’s face while they have fun having sex while the exbf is traumatized. It’s literally the same scene except the bottom in the other story is fr petrified and crying as he can’t bring himself to move.

Bottom doesn’t have self respect but the top I guess has master manipulation skills. What’s funny is that people who read the manga have mixed reviewed and there’s people that defend the mistress due to his traumatic backstory as per usual. But the mistress was selfish to the very end and enjoyed making others lives hell and he has no remorse for what he did too.
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Wait a damn minute the mistress is a guy?? You and I might have read the same story. The mistress you said if I remember correctly is the yakuza’s boss’s woman, he has black hair, and has thin body, he’s quite slutty and just a sob story.

The main uke has blonde hair to the neckline and thin body as well. He was raped in the hotel by men I believe. And he was comforted by ML I believe. The ML is the type to really pity those with sad past so he had a hard time choosing between main uke and the mistress dude.

He and the mistress even banged on the car and decided to run away together, leaving his sister and blonde uke. But they got caught by the yakuza I think and came back. Blondie found out I think and cried.

The part where ML and mistress had sex in front of blondie, it made me heartbroken. The mistress dude kidnapped the blondie and told the ML to come or he told them both to come with threats. I know ML and blondie weren’t dating but it’s so disgusting cause ML knows blondie likes him. The mistress had made ML and Blondie have sex with each other prior, and I don’t think they went all the way because blondie fell asleep from stress.

ML was probably unsatisfied and got tempted by mistress dude to have sex while blondie was passed out. Mistress and him were fucking the whole time blondie was out, and the blondie woke up, saw them fucking right in front of him, ML saw and was about to stop but the mistress told him to continue. And he fucked the mistress faster to finish and he didn’t want to see blondie’s face out of shame.

And yeah, ML and blondie got together in the end. In the raws I saw that they were together and walking in the park or something. They came across the mistress with a changed look I think. Blondie was afraid he’d go back to him and kept silent I think, but the ML didn’t and just said some words and said goodbye.

I pitied Mistress (I think his name was Sudo) because of his sad back story but I dislike him for all that shenanigans. I hate the ML most. I love blondie the most, although the ML changed and only loves blondie, what he did before (running off and sex right in front) is not redeemable imo.

Also ML never loved Sudo I think, he only was attracted sexually since Sudo was quite the slut and literally gave off sexual aura. And blondie was the opposite, but ML loved him romantically. I think ML was also sexually attracted to blondie but Sudo’s pitiful back story won him over at the time.

The times when blondie wasn’t able to have sex with him or slept, ML thought of Sudo and jerked off I think or something.

Yeah pretty sure that’s the story, even the summary you made, made me remember and feel sick again lmao. I wish I could unsee it all. For someone he didn’t love and only pitied/lusted over, they had way too much screen time and the mc/ml did way too many disgusting things for me to believe he truly treated blondie well and loved him. The resolution was so unsatisfying and the mc got it easy with barely any proper groveling or redemption arc. Just a lame time skip saying he changed. I have never hated such a duo so much (black haired mistress and mc) that I wished they would be burned in h3ll lmaooo. If I were the blondie I’d be so traumatized i wouldn’t be able to trust anyone in a relationship again. And I believe the blondie and mc were in a relationship or at least the mc literally said he loved him to his face and led him to believe it was mutual but still pulled all that crap. It’s one thing if he was blackmailed for that part, it another thing when he willingly obliged to everything the mistress said out of hornyness and pity.

I guess for the mc, a pretty face and a sob story is all it takes for him to be unfaithful. I wouldn’t be surprised if this happens again and he’s swayed multiple times with how much of a loser the guy is.

Whoops sorry for making you remember all of it again!! I felt the same but I’ve read worse stories with cheating and abuse, etc so I’m sort of used to hearing about these types. I still hate these types of tropes, it makes me heartbroken and then annoyed, then numb.

It was also hard for me to believe the ML liked the blondie romantically. Honestly the story had bad writing or I just remembered it wrong. Same, agreed, I personally wouldn’t be able to get into a relationship if someone treated me like this.

It would take a while for me to open up to someone I can trust. ML didn’t deserve the blondie one bit, I even wished for ML and the mistress to end up together and my blondie meets with an actual man who treats him much better.

And I think the ML was blackmailed to go over there, if I remember correctly the mistress threatened to harm blondie. Even so, bro continued to fuck the mistress in front and I nearly vomited mentally. How can you have the nerve to continue doing that when blondie is awake? At least get another room, but I bet mistress did that on purpose.

And I think ML did it because he was blackmailed and at the same time he was horny. Also I forgot to mention, the mistress told blondie to come closer and suck ML’s dick. ML was uncertain and didn’t seem to like the idea at first, but once blondie (who was crying) went reluctantly and sucked, and the mistress also joined in and sucked the other side of his nasty cum drenched pp, he blushes or something.

Not too sure but I know for a fact that the two ukes sucked his nasty pp..

As for the relationship between blondie and ML, I think you’re right about the part where ML also said he likes blondie so they were in an unofficial relationship(?). Not too sure but ML did know that Blondie loves him, so I hated how he treated blondie regardless.

+ and I agree that I wouldn’t expect the relationship between blondie and ML to last long considering how lame the ML is and pities the slightest sob story.

I would’ve felt some sympathy for the mistress had he not threatened, hurt others, and did that shit in front of blondie. Honestly, blondie didn’t deserve any of this and he deserves to be treated with affection and respect. As for the mistress and ML? They can go jump off a cliff together and I’d laugh.

I wouldn't laugh if woojoen jumped off a cliff though.
Minho hell yes GRILIEEE NEEDS to jump off a cliff

The author definitely has some weird kinks about cheating etc, but that shouldn't ruin the whole story. I just skip the chapters with the sex between Minho and Woojoen cus like there is nothing to them for me

We weren’t talking about Woojin and Minho