you need to be specific. you get exactly what you ask for in life. some people make a wish of the perfect guy, but forget to mention "he won't cheat and is loyal to a fault, but not possessive or obsessive or controlling" and get a perfect guy who ends up like this later on more or less. you gotta have clear standards so that you can sieve through shit without getting distracted.
I mean, obviously I refuse the creeps y'know xD
But oh well, a caring human who would take care of me and cherish, just as I would cherish and care for them, it's similar to what I want for friendship, except for the deeper more intimate love kind of thingy, someone who doesn't put his work first, so I'm not sure about someone older, they seem like workaholics, I like my Gen z's we don't put work as this high above entity y'know, still...an older man with experience might know how to treat me, but guys already die earlier than women in general, so if he's older to boot...I'd rather my husband live with me for most my life. If he cheats....yeah his survival rate drops obviously.

F*ck, where's MY love story??!
I hate uni, I hate work, I hate that it gets in my way of finding my one true love ugh, I should've dated when I was younger