
His suffering stops mattering the moment he uses it as an excuse to destroy someone else's life. Kill her dad or whatever. It's deserved. But torturing her because of an inferiority complex that comes from twisted love and self misery isn't particularly inciting to the readers. We can feel bad for him, but on the overall, many things could have been avoided were he to be true to himself and not a dick.

his suffering is not worthless, but knowing his past means knowing his behavior. we tend to sympathize with them easily if their action were explained (specially if we love them), that doesn't mean it's justifiable behavior to bring someone down because you didn't experience the same misfortunes. for example: you suddenly know your bully has also been bullied before, we can rationalize that and came to understand "why did he do it".

You seem to be the privileged idiot in here. We are discussing stand points about a novel in a comment section, with different people giving different opinions.
But not only are you unable to give an input without being offended by another person opinion, you act as if you know them personally.
"Privileged person"- coming from someone who knows nothing about me, when we are talking about a series. Learn to have a discussion about a topic without insulting the other person and standing with your opinion in regards to the discussion. We speak about a manhua, you reply about a manhua. Don't come doing personal attacks.
Finally I'm not pissed, I was replying to your dumb comment, because apparently I'm privileged to be able to give my opinion? Then I guess I am. Have a good night ٩(๑❛ᴗ❛๑)۶
I don't understand how for some of you, her suffering is sad, but his suffering is worthless. Does it only matter to you when the FL has a tragic life? I'm not justifying His negligence and abuse towards her, I'm trying to show the double standards of y'all.