It's kinda tricky. Both aren't really at fault. They just need to talk. Both have a point....

Rikku May 28, 2024 4:18 am

It's kinda tricky. Both aren't really at fault. They just need to talk. Both have a point. One is too anxious, the other brushes off his partners feelings resulting to more anxiey. Maybe therapy, eh?

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    wabisabi_sama May 28, 2024 9:05 am

    I don’t think Yohan is too anxious for a person who’s dating a literal brick wall for 7 years. We all need reassurance at times, it’s emotionally exhausting

    Marion May 28, 2024 12:39 pm

    Idrc what anyone says myun is in the wrong here, not only is he unable to express his love after dating for 7 years but hes so concerned ab ppl finding out theyre dating that hes essentially banned any and all intimacy from yohan, but he'll allow dudes who're clearly into him, do said banned intimate acts (not all of them but some simple ones like physical touch)

    bltrash May 29, 2024 2:54 am
    Idrc what anyone says myun is in the wrong here, not only is he unable to express his love after dating for 7 years but hes so concerned ab ppl finding out theyre dating that hes essentially banned any and all ... Marion

    could not have said it better! and yohan knows mugyeong loves him, but sometimes people need someone to tell them outright that they care ykwim it just hits different. he's held it for 7 years so i honestly don't blame him for reaching a breaking point

    Rikku May 29, 2024 4:28 pm

    Well, like I said, it's valid from both sides! I understand mugyeong, too though. His love language is very different and it's very valid to feel uncomfortable with showing public affection (especially if being gay is still to this day a problem in some countries unfortunately!).

    But I totally understand Yohan. Honestly after 7 years, shouldn't there be a understanding at this point? Valid points.

    Funnily enough, at first I thought Yohan was being too much (he's a drama queen after all when it's about love) but with the last chapter, I really do feel sorry for him.

    Excited to see how they will resolve this ╥﹏╥