Oh boii

papermom May 29, 2024 2:02 am

Am i really ace ??...if this is normal couple fight (which it is)i dont think i can handle it..even just reading it is mentally exhausting...so having irl im not sure if have want to deal with it T.T

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    dreamedtheirlifeaway May 29, 2024 2:08 am

    As a person who is a gray asexual, do you mean aromantic? Bc asexual peeps still have romantic relationships.

    Also, it might be more to do with an avoidant attachment style rather than anything to do with asexuality or romanticism. Tbh I doubt anyone wants to have these types of fights, however to completely bar off relationships just bc of possible conflict (that hasn’t happened yet) does sound a bit like avoidance

    Naty Hunter May 29, 2024 3:39 am

    27y somewhat gray/demi asexual in a romantic relationship here
    It really depends because sex isn't something in my mind most of the time cheating isn't really either, I've come to realize that alo people are more worried about cheating than ace do
    My boyfriend is not ace and he doesn't get jealous but we have great communication.
    But from previous relationships I can tell that doesn't mean a jealous person won't cheat on you
    What I mean is people are different and relationships are different but if being in a relationship tires you it's a bad one and it's better to break up.
    This relationship here is not realistic both are kinda toxic me too would be tired if I had to worry about something like that in a relationship