I am so with you, like yeah it is problematic to take advantage of the seme and being drunk is no excuse. At the same time the seme is double his size and super strong, he can pick him up and take him home
Exactlyyyy thank youuu. like yes even in a relationship and drunk you still need consent but at the same time they haven't really discussed boundaries and dude is blasted, he probably has no idea wtf is happening and seme can easily stop him and uke knows that. It's kinda weird how easily he let the uke push him around, strip him and mount him, like sir you are basically triple his size you can pick him up with your thumb and pointer finger like a human picking up a mouse by the scruff. If you're so worried and don't want it, grab his arms look him in the eye and say, "hey im not comfortable with this, let's stop and continue at home or in a hotel room." He needs to set his boundaries and I'm sure uke, sassy and blasted as he is, can understand you're serious and stop. But if your just gonna twiddle your thumbs uke is going to take the lead. I understand that if it's reversed it'd be a lot worse but same logic, look them in they eyes and say "you're drunk let's stop" and if they continue THEN they're the asshole. Maybe I'm just desensitized cause it usually is reversed and terrible but like come on SPEAK MF.
Real! In the end it’s the speak the fuck up part.
I agree that physically he’s able to make him stop if he rly wanted but I’d say emotional coercion might also be a factor in this
Yeah I agree as well, but he needs to stand his ground. He can't just let his partner do whatever cause they're drunk. He's gotta be able to speak up, otherwise he shouldn't have gotten with someone so outspoken. That's why I'm conflicted, to me there's to many factors. It's been good so far so I don't want to drop it because of one grey area. I'm hoping they properly sort it out afterwards instead of just ignoring it.
Yeah I agree but authors always match up their couples to have some sort of communication issues…. From their personalities so far I kinda think they’ll just glaze over it or things like this may happen again but we’ll see
I mean if the roles where reversed it feels like a given that this is SA, but at the same time he is drunk ASF and dudes a literal judo fighter can't he just pick his skinny ass up, say he's too drunk to do this, and toss him in a hotel room? The uke is drunk ASF skinny ASF and horny ASF so he's thinking with his dick but seme is not drunk ASF, strong ASF, and can think rationally. If the seme said hell yeah let's have sex while sober it'd feel wrong on the seme's part. So I'm conflicted, I'm going to see how they deal with this afterwards and then I'll decide if they loose my interest or not lol