Y'all realise marriage is just a piece of paper right? Especially in their world, marriage...

Sugarhoneyicedtea July 7, 2024 10:51 am

Y'all realise marriage is just a piece of paper right? Especially in their world, marriage is really only needed for those who can't pair. For alphas and omegas, all they need is to pair and they're bound together for life. Compared to that, marriage is a flimsy and weak institution. Seme honestly didn't mean it the way as uke took it, he's blunt and brash and says things straight. But that he definitely shouldve worded it better.

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    Aoi July 7, 2024 10:55 am

    Well, i understand that & what you're saying. Gurlll.. But nah!! I refuse! This seme is just so annoying. He needs to communicate better, phrase his words better & also have some character development. Its like they were better off when they weren't official.

    Aoi July 7, 2024 10:58 am

    Also, just because marriage may seem like a piece of paper to him doesnt mean he got to decide it by himself. Then whats the point of their relationship? *sighs* The more i think about it. The more i find him to be an ass and a bad lover.
    Anyways, I'm just ranting! (╯°Д °)╯╧╧

    specird July 7, 2024 11:06 am

    im not "yall". every person has different view about marriage, don't generalize. in my culture, at least, marriage is a sacred ceremony.

    AiriSenpai July 7, 2024 11:26 am

    I get your point bestie. But to the uke, I think, marriage isn't just a piece of paper. It will give him a sense of security in their relationship, especially since they are always at odds.

    Also, correct me if I'm wrong, but I don't think they are mated yet? Or are they? I forget.

    Nevertheless, I still think the seme is an asshole for suggesting to hold a pretend wedding even after the uke opened up about how he feels about marriage. He should've just explained why he didn't want to marry, instead of doing a fake one for the sake of it.

    Sugarhoneyicedtea July 7, 2024 11:28 am
    Also, just because marriage may seem like a piece of paper to him doesnt mean he got to decide it by himself. Then whats the point of their relationship? *sighs* The more i think about it. The more i find him t... Aoi

    I get that, but honestly if you believe the point of being in a relationship is to get married, your relationship won't last long. Marriage is just an expression of your commitment to each other, but it's not a necessary thing. It honestly saddens me to see people saying things like 'what's the point if they don't get married'. But each their own. Some is religious, some cultural, but no relationship should only exist for the purpose of marriage.

    idek July 7, 2024 11:34 am

    i agree marrige isnt somenthing easy, but when u each other have so much differences both will only get hurt & things will never work out. his reason wasnt "im not ready" he never wanted to, this just mean theyre not for each other thats why they have to break up

    sorry for the bad english