It's not unrealistic babygirl this shit still happens and we need this. That woman girl bossed too much, her masculine energy is at peak It's imbalanced. She is a woman who is ignoring her feminine energy meanwhile that shithole of her husband is on too much feminine energy. We need this kind of plot and this is too good
Then what is the point of a story if it's lined up to one's expectations? OK ok wait I'm here for the ML to save her and you like she saving herself. We clearly have two different expectations and I respect your ideology. It's just too realistic for me. I'm looking forward to escape in this not to read a girl boss story that I already am and it's very boring. I'm girl bossing too hard. I'm Saving myself so that's why I like this concept even though in real life I would never do it

Tbh, I don't like both of them. The black hair guy and the husband. I hate the husband obviously but the black haired guy is just... Sight... I don't like how it feels like he's saving her? I don't know if I'm explaining myself but it's like, she needs him when it's clearly she doesn't. While I understand the black-haired character's role as a saviour, I fear it may undermine the agency and independence of the female protagonist. Despite her hard work and maturity, she is still being portrayed as someone who needs rescuing, which is not only unrealistic but also disrespectful to the character. Instead, I would prefer to see her take control of her own life and find strength in her own abilities.
(Chat got helped me with the last part cuz I didn't know how I could explain myself)